⌛ Best Posts in Thread: How normal is that filipina girl chet their man.

Am still in Australia but so bloody cold, and wet here, so time to head back to the Philippines to find out
if my wife has been cheating on me. haha.
I honestly feel that she has never cheated on me in all the years we have been together, but if she did and I
found out then I would expect her to tell me the reason why she cheated, and go from there.
In any case I never trust any woman 100% ( men also ) and yes, you are right, I dont make friends easily,
but the couple of friends that I do have I would trust with my life, but none are woman.
Dont get me wrong as I am a pleasant person to everybody, and have many acquaintances, but always on my
guard when I am with them, (Maybe I learnt this in Nam) and they were hard lessons never to forget.
It is amazing how many women in the Philippines are lier`s compared with other countries, ( before you
good people out there jump on me I said MANY not ALL women) but I reckon that out of every ten women in
the Philippines that I have had experience with in one way or another, at least nine of them have been lier`s,
and a lot of these women have been Politicians, Doctors, Police, Saleswomen, and whoever, so if you have a
"lady" whom you feel that you can trust (like mine....I think) well then that is a blessing, but never let go of the reins.
ALL males tell lies no matter how much they may deny it (sorry blokes) but that is a trait we all have, but we are
not good liers, (unless you have a good memory ) and we usually get caught out .
I`ll sign off now an prepare myself for the earfuls that I am sure I will get, so dont hold back on me I can take it. haha.
The Fearless Freak.

 

Look, do live here? If you did, then you would know the unwritten rule. I know because I got the welcome packet as soon as I stepped off the plane. We really don't want our girlfriends around us... 24/****ing/seven. It wears on us old foreigners. We like the Filipina's precisely because they cheat on us. Do you think they really love our old, white, pasty, wrinkly asses? Hell no, they just want to practice their English.

So, we invite them in, give them a lesson and then send them on to their young, muscled, stallion BF's. After that, we take a nap and head out to the bar. We drink until we're stumbling drunk and then go back home. Sometimes, we call up our students for another lesson before passing out. Or we might call them, pass out anyways and get the lesson done in the morning.

 

Naw, not having it. Normal Filipina girls don't cheat and not every husband has a age gap of 40 years. Only some gold diggers, maybe you know some.

 

My GF has been all of those, it just depends on the day of the week. And me too. On Tuesday I dress up as a policeman and she dresses up as a doctor. She plays doctor and if she can't get me off, then I arrest her for malpractice. On Wednesday, I come in dressed as a politician and ask her if she had sex with the policeman the other day. Of course, she lies about it, and of course I catch her in the lie. Then I have to tie her up and spank her for cheating on me. If I can make her scream, I get her vote!

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In my experience men are the ones society matter what country your in expect to cheat. They love to think of women as the pure innocent that was corrupted by men.

However the truth I think is that women cheat as much as men but simply are better at covering it up plus added in society loves to point at men cheating, not women. In my years here in the Philippines and all the women I have met I have found so many of them hopped into the sack with me easy but short while later finding out they had bf's already even a 2 had foreign boyfriends (very old guys who were always back and forth). Now I'm currently 35 so the fact my being younger made so many think far better chance with a better future if they could nab me then a filipino bf or an *old* foreigner usually 65-75 with medical issues (and yes plenty of you guys aren't that). Funny as it sounds I even had 2 girls years ago (19 and 20) who were virgins who came after me wanting me as a foreigner as their first (funny as crap imo).... later found out both had filipino boyfriends who they had been turning down (yes they were actually virgins).

Many girls I have also talked to at numerous times in their life have had multiple boyfriends, often the in person boyfriend with an extra text boyfriend or two that may become the new in person boyfriend soon enough.

Of course there are plenty of good girls out there also just as good guys. What we do when we are single is just that as long as your not lieing and bs'ing your way. But imo best way to make sure your partner isn't going to cheat is don't ignore them and make sure they are with you because they want you.... not because they need you. But soon as you start ignoring or sidelining your partner is when room starts to open up for someone else to fill the gap.

 

Do not believe gender is the critical factor in cheating....both men and women cheat....for different reasons and with different results....Here is the Philippines the inclination to cheat.....especially in "May-December" foreign relationships is more often the Filipina....for several reasons....not the least of which is the fact that many foreigner-Filipina relationships are economic not emotional....and there is the added component of age and culture....when a Filipina is in a Foreigner-Filipina relationship....she suffers in her culture....she is considered a wh*re.... a goldigger....Filipinas are very proud....they suffer this stigma to survive....not many "rich" Filipinas go with Foreigners....in fact most to not even wand to associate with them....just the Purok girls....
The additional force besides the excitement and sex of cheating....is a slight elevation in social status that cheating brings..... instead of being a wh*re who sells her body and youth for financial gain....by cheating she becomes a LITTLE better by being a golddigger that USES the foreigners....exploits the foreigner....still not good but at least better than a wh*re....

I might add this is not true of ALL Filipinas.... just most....some Filipinas honor their partners....and despite temptation remain faithful....if you have one of those you are a VERY lucky man

 

I'm just getting warmed up. Let's try to attack this problem from another angle.

Steps to take to discover if Filipina's "chet" on their BF's.

1) Find a Filipina. Make sure she is cute. If you bag a "baboy" then it's you who is cheating. You are cheating the experiment. No Filipino wants to flip the rice bill for a super hungry GF.

2) Lay some pipe. Lay so much pipe that she will scream in awe in the presence of your great plumbing skills.

3) Kick back and watch if she cheats you on. Follow her. Hire someone else to follow her.

4) This is the best step, repeat the experiment! One Filipina is hardly a good sample size. You need more data! Find 100 more Filipina's and repeat steps 1 through 3. Report back with verifiable data and I will crown you King of Dumaguete info. I don't even care what the results are, you won!