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11-year-old boy fathers child with 36-year-old mother of a school friend

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    Wellington: An 11-year-old New Zealand boy was reported on Saturday to have fathered a child with the 36-year-old mother of a school friend, raising questions on why women cannot be charged with rape in the country.

    Counsellors working in the area of child sexual abuse said the case highlighted a lack of attention to women as potential offenders, according to the New Zealand Herald, which reported the story.

    The case has also prompted an examination of the law, under which the crime of rape applies only to men.

    Justice Minister Judith Collins said she would investigate, the paper reported.




    This case raises an important point. I will seek advice from officials on whether or not a law change is required,” Collins said.

    The woman and boy, whose names were not released, live in the main North Island district of Auckland.


    Child confides in principal

    The boy’s school principal told the New Zealand Herald that he was shocked when the child told him what was happening. “You won’t be very happy with me,” he recalled the boy saying late last year. He said he had been having *** with his friend’s mother “and it needs to stop”.

    The organisation, Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse, said if the case is proved, then the woman should be held accountable.

    Under New Zealand law, the crime of rape applies only to men and carries a maximum jail sentence of 20 years.

    Women who force a male to have *** face a charge of sexual violation which carries a maximum 14-year sentence.

    According to the newspaper, government welfare officials — who took the baby into care about two months ago — confirmed they were dealing with a case at the boy’s school and that it was before the courts, but refused to comment further. The police also refused to comment.

    The Herald reported that the young father, who has now turned 12, was also understood to have been taken into care.

    11-year-old boy fathers child with 36-year-old mother of a school friend | GulfNews.com

     
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    lol IT must have the sheeps day off
     
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    crazy it is, how can an 11 yr old fathers a child when he himself is a child?lol
     
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    Good on im. If it was here he would probably be messing with his 6 year old sister.
     
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    The Sick Horny woman 36 years of age with a brain between her legs... having sex with an 11 year old boy......what can I say beside RAPE! Cut the brain in two pieces and send the MONSTERLADY to where she belongs, FOREVER BURNING HELL, and let her have fun with all the rapists down there. I am a father of 3 boys and one girl....... the readings about this woman and what she have done gives me extreme pain and anger..... I hope and pray that the boy will come out ok after this Monsterlady's abuse of his body!
     
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    Hey you Sibulano.......this is not about him .....it is about a 36 year old sicko lady and what SHE DID TO HIM!
    Your comment is actually very premature!
     
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    I don't get what you mean,, sure she is a bit sick in the head to have it off with a kid that young but you have to live in a house with no windows to never see 11 or 12 year old girls here pregnant by 11 or 12 year old boys.. Head up in the hills and open ur eyes, its not uncommon..She didn't do anything to him that he didn't probably want...
     
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    For someone in that age... I'm quite sure that kid didnt know what was happening. I don't see anything else other than rape. The lady took advantage of the poor kid. Period
     
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    You do actually get some children that are way beyond their years in actions, communication, intellegence and sometimes nastyness. I am sure this boy will not be as traumatised as if it was a girl victimised by a perv...guy..friend..relative..
    At least he told someone, if the story has not been exagerated. To many times things like this happens and the victim doesnot or cannot speak up
    Until to late to have a normal life.. Maybe the lady ? was blackmailed.. Who ever knows the full true story ??
     
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    I don't really see much difference between a girl and a boy being in a rape victim especially if their only children. I have a friend he was 14 yrs old, the mother was a heavy party goer came home and found her son sleeping with her friend (about 40 yrs old). The boy is okay but after that the mother reckons he became more sexually aggressive like he kept watching pornos and just perving at girls. I know this doesn't apply to all rape victims but the question lies to what happen to them after the incident especially to this one? He is fathering a child, does he even know what sort of responsibility that is? Or he wouldn't know the difference and later on he will just be sleeping around with different women and get them pregnant? But who knows. I think this woman deserves to be in jail. It's terrible to leave your son to a friend thinking you can trust them and then realise they took advantage of their innocence.
     
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