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  1. Jack Peterson

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    I would Agree but seems a Poster recently sees or heard it another way but that's life here very Confusing somedays
     
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    Confusion could be because Females commit Adultery and Men commit Concubinage.
    Oddly the penalties are more severe for the female because she could become pregnant.
    Go figure.
     
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    Not going to split hairs Dave but the guy could give a baby, then wait, what happens if it is two people married to other Spouses.
    It really is as broad as it is wife EH?
     
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    I agree only the offended spouse can file the criminal complaint (i.e., initiate the charge of adultery (or concubinage)), but the rest of your post is unclear to me so I would like to dialogue with you for clarification.

    As I understand the law, if the offended spouse files a complaint, the offended spouse must file a complaint against both their spouse and the person with whom the spouse cheated. Below, I attached a screen shot from the Mabuhay Law web site.

    So, if a Filipino tries to threaten the foreigner with prison for fornicating with his wife, to be a credible threat the Filipino must also be willing to send his wife to prison for the same offense.

    ChMacQueen, is this also the way you understand the law? image.jpeg Thanks.
     
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    "if both are alive"

    lol I think that's your hint that it is a really bad idea to screw a married person in the Philippines. Avoid it at all costs.
     
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    And the million dollar question then is... how do you know if they are married or not? Preferably without investing months into a relationship.

    I'm not there yet but I have discovered the CENOMAR sent to me was purchased to say single when in actuality she is separated and has a child. I found out over a period of 2 months, the first red flag was receiving the document without asking for it, the next dozen red flags were the way things were phrased every once in a while, finally under specific questioning sprinkled with a little guilt the truth came out.
     
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    Most unfortunate but many Documents are.
     
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    I find that avoiding women with children is a great way to minimize my chancing of hooking up with a married one. With most of them it only takes one glance at their tummy to determine if a kid has ever been in there. I've had a couple in the past where I would have been screwed if there was husband but I immediately call them out on their lie blatant lie and tell them to not come back or call me again. If they are willing to lie about having a child (something that is part of them and they should love unconditionally) there is absolutely nothing they won't be willing to lie about. I used to be more tolerant of that but that was back when I first got here and hadn't yet realized how easily replaced they were. Zero tolerance for liars these days. Tell the truth or GTFO, don't give a crap if it's a part of their "culture" or not.
     
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    Agree 100%. The basis of a healthy relationship is respect and honesty. If they cannot or will not meet those very basic tenants of a healthy relationship. They are gone immediately! No room for B/S.
     
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