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Two Year Post Stroke Update

Discussion in 'Expat Section' started by PatO, Sep 29, 2015.

  1. anti_crazy

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    Great post, Pat. I admire your attitude and peristance. Wishing you the best, sir.
     
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    3 Year Stroke Update.
    I had a mini stroke about this time 3 years ago and a maxi stroke 3 weeks later. I post progress updates to inform others in case it happens to them.
    Those of you who know me see me as a positive force, never giving up, doing everything I can to get better. I have an intrinsic characteristic to fight to get back to normal. Sound like a tough guy? No way. Most days I feel like screaming and shouting because of my handicap and limitations, but I don't. Many days I fight severe depression but then I pull my head out and realize how extremely lucky I am. I have an angel for a wife, a son who is my pride and joy, and a caring extended family to look after me. Although we don't have much now, the house and vehicles are paid for and our boy is in a good private school, and I can pay for my necessary medications. Those things keep the stress level way down.
    So you see if you have a stroke and do not have a support system your life will simply be challenging and maybe overwhelming.
    My right side (arm and leg) has paralysis and the muscles have shrunk. I walk with a person on my right in case my leg gives up or I lose my balance, which is probably my biggest problem. Still, I can walk the 1.8 kilometer round trip harbor to the tourist police office and I go to the gym 5 times a week. I can not drive and I can not write or sign my name. I have to use a finger print at the bank. It is embarrassing wobbling when I walk in the mall but it is what it is.
    So friends, get your blood pressure and cholesterol level checked. Proper diet and exercise is up to you.
    Having said all this, I am fortunate and life is good. Take care.
     
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  3. Rye83

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    Thanks for the update Pat. Hope things continue to improve for you.
     
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    Respect for the way you handle the consequences of your stroke, wish the best to you and your familie
     
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    I'm glad you are better PatO and I'm glad you are still posting!
     
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    alex DI Forum Patron Highly Rated Poster

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    Your looking better each time i bump into to you m8 keep up the good work
     
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    Its been great to see your progress Pat.
     
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    Attitude is everything.....keep fighting the good fight.
     
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