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Discussion in 'Off-Topic Forum' started by Rye83, Sep 27, 2014.

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    Prior to Katrina in South Mississippi my family was netting approximately $35k a month. 100% business and home loss. I have been in the Philippines since a month after Katrina, the wife rebuilt, has a new 450k house and the business is booming again.

    But I am happy in the Philippines with 4k+ monthly. I am one of the poor foreigners in Dumaguete & Dauin.

    I just cannot save...she has a new caddy Suv....and I’m riding a 125 cc motorcycle.

    Divorce in Mississippi is beyond difficult. Anyone have a good suggestion to Divorce when the spouse will not sign? She wants my health insurance.
     
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    Seems like she has done quite well since your departure. Coincidence?

    Get a lawyer. If she won't sign you have to find a fault ground and take her to court.

    The fault grounds in Mississippi include, but are not limited to, the following:
    • impotence
    • adultery
    • bigamy, or marriage to someone else at the time of marriage
    • criminal conviction and sentence to any jail time
    • willful continuous desertion for at least one year
    • habitual alcohol or drug abuse
    • habitual cruel and inhuman treatment
    • wife’s pregnancy by another at the time of marriage without the husband’s knowledge, and
    • hospitalization or institutionalization of a spouse for three years due to insanity.
    It seems like with you leaving the country she has a better chance of filing and getting what she wants. Seems she has the upper hand. She may not act on it while she is making more and living a better life than you. But I suspect she will take you to the cleaners eventually.
     
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    I have an attorney. Property Settlement was she gets all the property except my parents property, she gets income from the business since 2006. Plus we have property at Destiny Plantation in Biloxi. I let her have that too.

    She had a brain tumor...removed last October, there’s complications. She has TRICARE Prime, but she loses it after divorce. Something called COBRA will let her keep her insurance network for 36 months, but its $450 monthly. The annuity now is $685 annually. I have Tricare over seas.
    We were not married when I was active duty.

    Her attorney said “healthcare is essential her life right now”.

    Ole Miss Lawyer says he’s working on it....Attorney says...they want me to pay the annuity for 36 months.
     
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    Make her life so difficult that she wants to get rid of you.
     
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    I canceled her Prime Tricare insurance effective eom march. Her insurance will convert to standbye. She’s North Vietnamese from Hanoi.

    Her father was an assualt troop at Dein Ben Phu.
     
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    When I wrote "easy bike" I was reminded of the movie 'Easy Rider' - so I joined them. Perhaps it is a bike of the type that was in 'Easy Rider'.
     
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