I'm sorry

Just cannot hold it in any longer. "This STILE" of raggedy a$$ jeans and baby $hit brown hair. I married Maria 33 years ago she had coal black hair and dark skin. Never wore "raggedy a$$ jeans". I would and never did let her wear such degrading clothing. Every time I see a filipina wearing "raggedy a$$ jeans" I can't help but think she is either POOR or her man dose not care or give a $hit how his woman looks. Is he that friggen poor that she has to wear "raggedy a$$ jeans"?
About a year ago Maria started coloring her hair a dark brown. I let her know that I married a filipina with coal black hair and dark skin and that is the way I liked her. With coal black hair and dark skin and dressed like a LADY!
I almost forgot; White skin. If I wanted to marry a WHITE woman I sure would not fly half way around the world to marry a Filipina. There were lots of WHITE women in Alaska to chose from.
So what do you think of this "NEW STILE"?
"NEW STILE" MY A$$, I CALL IT "JOE $HIT THE RAG MAN STILE".

 

I tease my daughter about going to the Goodwill to get her jeans with holes for a lot cheaper than the premium paid to pay someone to make them look like that. Doesn't really bother me and I find it being worn by younger woman in casual settings. It seems to me, in the big scheme of things this and brown hair color are not that big of a deal. Now blue or purple hair might be a different deal. We all have different tolerances for this type of stuff. Other examples, include tattoos and piercings. I've heard people say when I married you, you were skinny, now your fat. The question becomes should one partner live to satisfy the other or should one partner accept their other partners choices because a person is so much more than what you see.

 

I have always picked my fights....clothing choices are not permanent, and hair color is not permanent, so I just bit my tongue (still do) when my kids do weird things with these. But, tattoos and piercings I am much more vocal about since they are permanent (esp. tattoos). My kids are adults now and I know my opinions don't matter much anymore, but one can always hope they listen anyway.

 

Filipinas want to be fashionable too---lol

 

Maybe thisll help you understand, Jim. you just need soem cheese to go with

 

You want them to quit doing it, start doing it yourself.

 

I love that ragged style. I can wear my old Levis and suddenly, I am not punk, I am fashion - that's great :-)

 

When I wear jeans/trousers or pants with holes in them, my wife calls me a "Farmer", can't win.