Yada Yada / The Off Topic Arena

Good evening. Are you the moderator here? I'd like a post of mine removed if possible. I think some posters have had their fun with it. Thanks, Ian.

 

and the same can be said for ignoring the comments made in response to the op, if you do not like what they said .... so what

 

Thats just what I needed. Thanks.

 

Many young girls in poor countries see a foreigner as a salvation - to help pull them and their families out of poverty. This could be a real dream to many of them and the opportunity creates great excitement and hope.

So some men take advantage of that, as we are all aware by the use of the term 'sex tourist' - destroying innocent young women of their dreams, leaving them feeling ashamed and used.

So the question we have to ask ourselves is: 'If this was my daughter, how would I feel?' If any person is okay with their daughter being f*cked by a sex tourist, who then moves onto the next target, I question that parent's feelings of responsibility towards their child.

 

I don't understand why so many people are giving this new guy a hard time for being open and honest about wanting a one night stand/ easy lay/ lady of the night (call it what you will....)

How many men on this forum have ever had a one night stand in their life? How many men on this site have at some time in their life not been entirely honest with a woman in order to get "what they want"? Are we in a position to judge if we have? Is there anything wrong with doing/ wanting that?

How many men on this site have visited Angeles and/or Pattaya at some time?

Is it taking advantage of a woman's poverty buy paying her for sex? One could argue yes, but one could also argue that it's putting money in her pocket and it's her choice to say yes.

Is it any worse that having a long term relationship with someone young enough to be your daughter or even granddaughter by offering her financial security/ a better quality of life/ family support etc, knowing full well that 9 times out of 10 she wouldn't do it if she was wealthy/ financially secure?

For sure there are plenty of scum foreigners who falsely promise a better life etc in order to get laid and disappear, and these guys make me sick, but let's not pretend that all Filipinas are innocent, naive, angelic virgins waiting to be corrupted. I have met plenty of Filipinas when I lived in Cebu and Davao that were happy to spend a night with me for nothing more that a night out on the town or nice meal and a few pesos for their taxi. In fact, I remember some that specifically told me not to get any ideas of a proper relationship because they weren't interested and were happy with the arrangement as it was. Granted it's Cebu/ Davao, and not Dumaguete which is much more provincial, but I'm sure there are girls like this here too.

It would be nice if we could all be a bit more open minded and mature, and less sanctimonious and hypocritical, but I know that is wishful thinking.

Personally I hope if this chap visits Dumaguete he gets what he is looking for and has a jolly good time. The same for everyone else here.