I wasn't paying much attention to that thread. Many times when I move off-topic posts I don't even bother looking at who posted them. I identify the post that I believe started going off topic, tick the box under every post that replied to that post after skimming through the content and then move them all in bulk to an off-topic thread. As for post ratings, I just don't pay them much attention. If you believe you were given one unjustly report it. If it was unearned I will remove it, if I feel it was warranted I will send a notification or message explaining why I believe it should stand.
Just to clarify: I think the trollin' type reply by DavyL200 (not just my opinion - he got 4 trollin' ratings in total from me and 3 OTHER members for that one comment) - was BEFORE my deleted comment. So HIS comment was the first off-topic one. I assume his ratings will remain. I don't report any negative ratings I receive - one was given in error but I let it go and a number were given by now-removed members or others with grudges, but you (I assume) removed them without me requesting (as you thought they were wrong). I don't report mine because I am as strong the day after I get one as I was the day before. I have at times reported unfair negative ratings given to other members or PM'd the giver asking for it to be removed and explaining why - but that is just my obsession with fairness.
i am not sure i can go that far however i agree i think with the general direction you are taking and i can ride along until the second rest stop i am sure. i was raised in fifties bible belt oklahoma where chastity was preached (if not always practiced) from every pulpit. my first wife was my first woman and when she divorced me and married her boss in des moines in 74 i was both confused and relieved. i got dumped out into the street during the sexual revolution and reacted like a somali at a buffet. i was told in 74 des moines that were were more x rated theaters than churches. (i don;t know about the churches but there were a LOT of theaters) but i never escaped from the whole moral philosophy of which chastity is a part so everytime i had sex i tried to marry the girl. but every marriage resulted in my losing my troth and my life savings. (six times--slow learner) so after a lifetime of confusion and surprises, i find my pot of gold in dumaguete city. my partner and i will celebrate our seventh anniversary in february. it will soon be my second longest relationship and it gests better every year. its also a zillion dollars less expensive than true love in the US. i finally learned you can separate sex from love and still sleep at night. but when they do come in one package it is really cool. so i would say i don't find chastity as disturbing as malnutrition, but i do feel its definitely overrated
everytime i try to have meaningful intercourse with you (no no no, the OTHER intercourse) i get sent to forum dunce corner along with you. how will we ever gain the respect of our fellow forum geniuses?? if you ever show up at a psychiatrist in mufti they will keep you sedated till---oh, ok, wait and i'll drive you myself!
I am worried that if I have ANY FORM of intercourse with you, it will mean instant marriage! Then again, the thought does appeal.
i found the names of four psychiatrists in duma, also two abrolaryo, and i have the phone number of one hit man. when do you want to go??