Thanks for the input guys, i follow the links today and chew on it a bit before i bite and sorry about using the anonymous button, i wanted it to be a surprise and i know she has friends reading this site.
So... it looks like it's going to take a little more footwork than in the states, like attending the required pre-wedding seminars and counseling <groan>
I sure hope one doesn't have to take the family planning thing, I took care of that about 40 years ago (snip : )