@Jack Peterson I think I have put a bandaid on it. I'm waiting for the guy who does this for a living to come check what I have done and optimize. Doing everything I can here guys, sorry for outage! @TheDude Thanks for the tip on the DNS problem.
First time on in 24 hrs, just seems strange certain people could get on but others not! Just kept getting server not found!
I went out last night,it was down, just tried this morning and it is ok, straight into the site. will keep you advised if things change.
The forum sending emails and me sending emails are two different processes. Glad it is working for you now.