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  1. lbriggs2002@hotmail.com

    lbriggs2002@hotmail.com DI Junior Member Showcase Reviewer Blood Donor

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    You have my permission to delete this if you think this is too sensitive a topic for a public forum, but I have a problem and I don’t have any answers. After living here in Dumaguete for ten years, I truly believe that the personal hygiene habits here are dangerous to my health. Our yaya who has been with us for five who is also our kitchen and cooking help does not meet my expectations concerning personal hygiene. I know for a fact that she does not use soap to wash her hands after using the CR. Most low income workers who work in construction or other jobs are paid 175p a day just do not have the p. to buy soap, therefore the common practice to clean private parts with a bucket of water kept in the CR. Now the problem is after hundreds of years of this practice they become immune to infection. But we foreigners are not.
     
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    Far from being too sensitive I think you are saying what most of us feel anyway but probably too shy or maybe cautious to put in a Post.
    Whilst many locals profess to be health conscious and clean in their day to day things I have to admit that I have witnessed much to say this is not so.
    Mainly in Bars and Restos you can see it happen all the rime. but at home there is no excuse, there is of course no excuse at all anywhere, especially where anyone is connected to Food. 5 years my friend is a long time to have put up with this and that will of course be up to you to address but for me the Lady would be moving on.
    I have just started a Thread on help at home based on the misuse of Phones but I have only put up with it for 3 months.
    Your lady may be a good Cook but as you say, if your health is going to suffer as you tend to suggest, Time I think to look around or maybe at First, Start with a hard Re-training Programme

    JMHO but..............................:facepalm:

    JP :wink:
     
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    Tell her to wash her hands, if she doesn't tell her she is fired. Rinse, wash, repeat.
     
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    Not to embarrass her, I would put up some notice's up. NOW WASH YOUR HANDS WITH SOAP.
     
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    I prefer the direct approach. No potential for a misunderstanding or misinterpretation. I would pull her aside in private and bring it up in a polite way so she didn't lose any face though.

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    Since my missus came back with her Shemale lover neither one have showered at all, and it has been four days now (the missus used to shower at least twice a day ) and they are using my bed for their love making, whilst I use the couch to sleep on, and there is nothing that I can do about it as the house in in the witches name, and she has threatened to kick me out if I complain, and she still has my ATM card and my passport, so for now I have to run like a submarine, deep and silent until my day comes.

    Her Shemale lover even tried to pin a tail on me when I was asleep one night, so my life is not showing any signs of getting back on track, as my hands are tied, but patience, and cunning will always defeat the enemy in the long run.

    Yesterday I mentioned to my defunct missus that for her own pride, and personal hygiene, both herself and her night stalker (the Shemale) should shower, because they are both starting to stink, but she turned a deaf ear to my suggestion.

    Anyway last night after I finished drinking my box of SM and crawled my way to the couch, I heard the missus and her lover making out, and I dont know what came over me but my late Grandfather flashed into my mind. I remember how he used to throw a bucket of water over his dogs to stop them from mating, and when he wanted to wash them. (two in one he used to say)
    YES my head was back in gear, ( Thanks Pop ) so I staggered my way into the bathroom and filled up a bucket of water, and fell head over heels into it trying to pick it up, but "never give up" was our Army motto, so after a few attempts I made it to the bedroom with a full bucket of water, and a cake of soap, where the two dogs ( my imagination was running wild by now...my Grandfathers dogs I was thinking ) were still at it, so with my last once of strength, and courage, I lifted the bucket and poured the whole lot over them......mission achieved.

    I now have temporary residence at a mates place whilst I am recovering from my wounds of battle.

    Hope this little bit of trivia may help others who are trying to add hygiene to their lives, a bucket of water works wonders, but dont come looking for me if it should backfire on you, I have enough problems.
     
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    Between the rain, Wrye's bag of smelly @ss crap town story and the freak's freakish cuckold nightmare it's time to put an uplifting DVD on. Any suggestions?
     
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    [​IMG] Good Night Pat ( Errrrrr Sorry Jon boy!:rolleyes:

    Jack P.:whistling:
     
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    Dont be like that PatO.
    You know the old saying...SMILE and the whole world smiles with you.
    But the Blood Sucking Freaks is not a bad DVD if you want a little joy in your life. haha.
     
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    I'm looking for 'Deep Throat' but I think my older son swiped it.
     
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