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Going on the internet to find a lady here requires an entirely additional education, than for the streets smarts that are required here. The best thing about the internet is that you can not catch a disease. However there is very little creditably on the internet, just look at this post. You are really confused if you think the single lady virgin you found on the internet is real, more likely she a lady (if you are lucky) with two kids, a gay cousin she sleeps with (because he is gay it is alright, even though he fathered her two kids) . As a suitor, he should not be concerned about the situations like that because she will only send the truth over the internet. That her mother is sick, and had died twice in the last six months requiring burial expenses being sent from foreigners should not be a concern either.
On more serious note, I would suggest your son pick up a book, "A Man's guide to Life and Love" in the Phillipines by Larry Elterman, available from Amazon for about 1o bucks, and read before he leave on his trip. Secondly I would suggest he reads it on his flight over here again. It will open his eyes to the realities of Filipino Culture and how the woman "work" here , and it will question his approaches for his pursuit of woman here also and suggest options. It is not a guilt inducing read, and really is funny at times. It highly recommends the Philippines for alcoholics and smokers because smokes and alcohol are cheap here. (one couple I met says they save over $150 USD a month on cigerettes alone). The woman look like they are bargains here too until you add the costs they ask for. It is a very practical book, whose author is rumored to have lived in Dumaguete.
My personal advice is do not have you son push himself too hard on the issue of meeting a lady, long term or short term, as no man has ever died of horiness, particularly while on vacation, in Dumaguete. "Death by horriness" just will never happen in Dumaguete for sure. When I was depressed here, I tried to kill myself by horriness here once but was not successful. A short 100 meter walk on the Boulevard eliminated the short term emotion problems, and as soon as I get off the meds, I think the longer term medical problem I caught on the boulevard will be gone too