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Meeting a Good woman

Discussion in 'Off-Topic Forum' started by Tom_A, Apr 20, 2011.

  1. Kenny

    Kenny DI Forum Adept

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    I have to agree with Rhoody. I know it worked for me. I came here with no intention of getting married. I traveled around had a great time with many lovely women but then one just sort of stuck. Thirty years two kids and a couple grand kids and we are still together. Don't try to hard relax and enjoy yourself things will happen probably faster than you had planned.
     
  2. Kojak

    Kojak DI Forum Adept

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    Best advice so far.....
     
  3. rechel

    rechel DI Forum Adept

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    A lot of things just happened weather it’s good or bad in time or period of your searching your Good woman. But always remember the decision is still yours even you have a lot for experience with many deferment women, and recommendations.


    You have to feel who you love the most after having long time trying and searching for the Miss Love of Your life and the Good woman.
    You have to feel your heart to whom its beats and who you really love.

    Good luck man.
    Rechel.
     
  4. SurfinUSA

    SurfinUSA DI Senior Member

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    I'd add, ask how many siblings she has, how many of working age are working, and most importantly ask what she expects from a foreigner husband. If you keep your big brain engaged, and don't like her expectations, I'd say find someone else.
     
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    Tom_A

    Tom_A DI Member Showcase Reviewer

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    I'm extremely impressed with all the feedback and suggestions. I think in each context everyone is right. I also think it will just be happenstance as to when and where I meet her. The very best advice that I think is discussed here is to not plan, not be in a hurry, and to explore and take the opportunity and time to settle in, to move from being and feeling like a tourist, into being a member of the community. That also doesn't mean that meeting someone online, or facebook, etc., is a bad way to go, because if someone does meet that way, all that means is, it is just the beginning of a possible relationship, not the end. We all have opinions and not just one way works every time for everyone. It would suck and be boring if that were the case. Each day that passes by brings me a day closer, and I am honestly looking forward to meeting you folks that are there now, and hopefully the other contributors that will be there some day.
     
  6. Firefly44

    Firefly44 DI Forum Adept

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    I think I will agree with Rhoody,s way. Maybe I will eventually find an magical orphan. Thanks for a good post and all the sound advice. Take care.
     
  7. Manzanita

    Manzanita DI Forum Patron

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    When someone thats already here, in the Philippines, comes onto an internet forum to ask how to meet a woman, than, well,.......:rolleyes:
     
  8. norteamericano

    norteamericano DI New Member

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    i just joined here,i liked your post.my face book is norteameri if some of your friends might like to chat.i have lots of pics from when i was in the phills 2 years ago.thanks
     
  9. norteamericano

    norteamericano DI New Member

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    hello my name is michael im new here so be nice please

    hello my name is michael im new here so be nice please.i was in the phills 2 years ago and just can not get the idea of retiring to the phills out of my mind,and like the other genleman said marrying a fillapina is 1 of the main desires.so im trying to learn what i can.happy easter
     
  10. Jack Peterson

    Jack Peterson DI Forum Luminary Highly Rated Poster SC Connoisseur Veteran Air Force

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    Welcome!

    :wink: Hi Micheal, Welcome to DI, I guess by your opening remarks, you have trawled the Threads a Little. What ever the reason you wish to retire here for, There Is always advice, Sympathy and Humour here. All you have to do ask. Like anywhere, things change, Dgte is still a slow place, A lot like it that way, it can still be aggravating on the official side. Finding a Wife! well that is a personal thing but as you have seen, Plenty of Reasons To or NOT to, add all the Pros and Con's and see what suits you. Always worth remembering Though, A truer thing has never been said, "You do marry the family as well as the girl" Most of us here have got good ones, there a couple of hiccups every now and then but in the main, you will get sound advice I am sure. have a good Weekend, Enjoy DI and Hope all goes well till you settle here.


    Jack P.:smile:
     
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