LOL guys - messed up situation

Having read your original post and all your subsequent ones, I think it only reasonable to doubt your sanity but not your fertility.
Are you a 'new wave settler'? (How long have you actually been in Dumaguete?)
I ask this because you obviously wished to ask advice (sound or not) on a public forum from people, who had been here longer than yourself, (perhaps you even wanted a little sympathy).
Then, you start kindergarten name calling people, "girls" and asking them to "grow balls", when you didn't get the sympathy part.
What did you honestly expect?

 

Like your signature says KTM
" Life is tough, but it's even tougher if you're stupid"

 

Well we'll see what happens I guess.. Im taking it one day at a time. Didnt mean to post and start drama on the forum just asked for a little advice because I don't know a lot of foreigners here and as you guys know its a whole different ballpark here as a foreigner. I'm not about to leave the child, I agree with above post about doing something else. I also have a IT Company where i make income over the internet and a small pension from my govmt work and getting hurt so not too worried about money. Just stating to you all what has happened and asking for some intelligent advice... not this drama / debate stuff you guys are all arguing over. I can't just up and RUN with my ex's child or thats kidnapping, and also I agree 100% With everyone on the blood test with the girl. This will be fun...........

 

Best luck Steveb155..

 

Good luck. I think it is admirable that you are taking care of the girl. I live across the street from an orphanage and see many sad faces on some of the kids.

 

Steve, a couple of choices spring to mind. If you Don't like one, choose the other.

Whatever, Hope things work out for you.

 

thanks for wishing me best of luck..i hope everything turns out ok and I appreciate pat0 comment about not just leaving the child behind.

 

Thank you for writing that you didn't mean to insult people that replied to you, despite what you wrote previously. If you wish intelligent advice and not criticism, then I would humbly suggest, that you discontinue insulting people here, whether you get pissed off or not with their opinions.

 

Steve, To not wish to leave the child is admirable, however if the child is not yours, a donation towards his/her welfare is more in keeping and run, if you feel so strongly bonded to the child, you could, at a later date offer to adopt .
The Mother is not your wife, then what's the problem? Go find somewhere else to live in Phillippines and find yourself a more stable relationship, perferably with a good, God loving woman.