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  1. you_have_been_removed

    you_have_been_removed DI Forum Adept

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    your biggest problem is going to be charging it, a few days of brownout, will take care of all that. Having lived in China for 10 years, I can assure you, you will have grief with it, all parts will have to be sourced from China, and thats when they will screw you, the Chassis and engine will have sub par parts, it will be nothing but a nightmare
     
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  2. Notmyrealname

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    Silly man, but the piece I quoted above says it all about their attitudes towards foreigners.
     
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  3. Show Pony

    Show Pony DI Forum Patron Highly Rated Poster Showcase Reviewer

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    The libel and slander laws are a little odd here. If your words or print are intended to cause damage to a persons reputation or business you are guilty. It doesn't matter if your statement was true or not.

    The are other strange legal things that apply here.

    The other night a motorcycle was counter flowing and decided to cross over to his correct lane at the last second. The oncoming truck killed the motorcyclist. The truck driver was arrested and charged with reckless imprudence causing homicide. The motorcyclist had no OR/CR/License. The motorcycle had no lights according to witnesses.
    That was doubly odd as not having a license immediately put a person in the wrong when there is an accident.
     
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  4. furriner

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    I looked up the term “damne” and suspect you may mean “dame” because damme is an archaic expression not referring to a person. Anyway, assuming you meant a Filipina woman, who is a citizen allowed to own land here, I would not do as you say; you are basically gifting her and potentially her heirs more than 23k USD that she gives you permission to use which can be revoked on a whim. This is true not only in the Phils but in many countries is Asia. If you were to marry the woman you would have a much better claim as “beneficial owner” of marital property where you could own it if she passes and her heirs wouldn’t have a claim. Of course, you should verify your particular situation with an attorney. Assuming marriage is not in the picture, you might wish to look at a long term lease using a knowledgeable attorney. You hear stories of foreigners getting married and the spouse legally or informally separating and selling the property with the foreigner losing everything. These stories may actually be true because the only way the foreigner can own land here is through legal inheritance by death of a spouse. If she (or the dame) is alive, you do not own anything. I wouldn’t do as you propose.


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    cabb DI Forum Patron Highly Rated Poster ✤Forum Sponsor✤

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    Here is a thread from a few years ago. Some ideas of where to look and the last post has a first name.
    https://dumagueteinfo.com/board/thr...counseling-family-therapy-psychologist.22940/

    I'll warn you it's from the male perspective. The last post is a member who offers help and is a psychologist, but I haven't seen a posting from her in my time here so not sure how you would reach out. Maybe an admin can help. Her name is Christine.

    I'd be pretty concerned when you need pre-marriage counseling. That usually comes after a few years of marriage. :smile: It's good that you recognize there are issues and are trying to resolve before you get married. The truth usually lies somewhere between the right and left perspectives.

    Another thread from this forum. Mr C is a specialist and has some thoughts.
    https://dumagueteinfo.com/board/threads/good-psychologist-in-dgte.23079/

    Here is a newspaper article on the Behavioral Science Clinic (BSC) in Barangay Candau-ay, Dumaguete City.
    https://www.sunstar.com.ph/article/90528

    Here is the resume of a Silliman faculty member that may do work on the side. Her email is in the resume.
    http://silliman.academia.edu/MicheleJoanValbuena/CurriculumVitae

    Good luck!
     
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  6. DavyL200

    DavyL200 DI Forum Luminary ★ Global Mod ★ ★ Moderator ★ Highly Rated Poster Showcase Reviewer

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    Right opposite dauin cockpit is the siliman outreach place. Very good and no long lines. Used it a few times.
     
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  7. Stefan_Negros

    Stefan_Negros DI Forum Adept

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    Lovely pictures.
    I can’t explain exactly but fact is when I watch your pics I feel better. Seriously.
     
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  8. Kelly Acosta

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    We did order some dog grooming stuff from Amazon; I think Amazon calculates the import fees already. You need to change your shipping address to Dumaguete City already. Here is an example quote:
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  9. Mikal

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    So I did end up finding something, 'hiding in plain sight', on OLX. It's in Sibulan, about 3-kilometers from the ferry terminal, right on the National Highway. They're not really targeting short-term, the units are a LOT larger than I needed, but not too pricey IMO. Just happy that they had a unit available.

    Just search OLX for 'Private storage warehouse' and it should come up.
     
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  10. Pompolino

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    Mokum, I was diagnosed just over 12 months ago with skin cancer. Since then I have had 2 malignant melanomas removed one in February and one in July both this year. I come from Australia (the melanoma centre of the world). I had chemotherapy for 6 months (was supposed to be 12 months but doctors were happy for me to stop - as was I) and as a consequence had very many other issues which happily are now under control and not a factor. My specialist and GP in Australia tell me that due to the fact that asians are not generally subject to skin cancer there is very little experience here which means that a skin specialist is very likely to cut out rather than make an informed decision or alternatively miss a diagnosis. I return to Sydney every 3 months for a check and treatment and whilst this is expensive I do it by way of risk management. Have had a rapid education in this area and happy to talk to you further so you can P.M. me if you wish.

    All the best.

    P
     
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