Thanks for posting this Daffs. This is very true and I learned it the hard way myself many times. It was such a HARD lesson to learn so I continued to repeat it over again with so many others thinking it can't be true. I have been called so many names and insulted once the money and help stopped. Even those times when I made it VERY CLEAR that it would only be this once with someone.........between what they THOUGHT and what I meant was VERY DIFFERENT! lol I hope this helps others.