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  1. betchelly_rodriguez

    betchelly_rodriguez DI New Member Restricted Account

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    My bf and i just broke up.Is it ok to live someone you loved?But then you found out that he still chatting with other girls and he lied he did not tell the girl that he has a gf and live together.When i asked him why he did not tell his girl that he has a gf and live together.He said that he dont like to hurt her feelings.Is that a good reason?
     
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    josephen DI Senior Member

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    SO it is okey to hurt your feelings than to hurt the other girl's feelings.
    But you already broke up as you mentioned.
    Try to move on.
     
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    betchelly_rodriguez DI New Member Restricted Account

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    He always said that he loved me but why he chatted with other girls?
     
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    Hi Gurl, i felt the same way too. Before me and my foreign BF meet in person. I knew that He is been communicating with other girls and that is acceptable because just like us we are searching for the most wonderful person that could accept the real us.

    Guess what happen?

    I am so inlove with him to the fact that I study a lot of ways how to hack an email just to know who are my competitors. Hehehe. SAD TO SAY, IT DID NOT WORK....

    But God is soooo good, He gave me a blessing in disguise way in YAHOO to know whose been communicating with my BF. From time to time I knew this girls. But I took them as a challenge. I did not get mad for I know that I can be competitive enough to win my BF. Hehehe. To make the story short, he choose me then visit the Philippines but those girls did not stop communicating with my BF that it always end up into an argument between me and my BF. My BF replied to them before but i get so mad because he is so nice to every girls he chatted before we meet. He gave me the same reason of what your X-BF gave you and for my own opinion it is unreasonable. You know why? Because, we gave it all to them, the love, the care and we end up to the point that there is nothing left for ourselves. To guys who are like that they are such a you know na!!!! Why can't they just stick to one and live happily inlove.

    Gurl, it is not your lost. Be strong. One day you'll meet God's Gift. So wait for it,,,,don't rush....

    Take care...
     
  5. josephen

    josephen DI Senior Member

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    Oh sweetheart - Maybe he was just wanting some fun then? Maybe his relationship with you was becoming a normal chore? Men do love some flirty attentions too from other girls, you know? Though it is not always saying they would love to be with them. Is your boy a local or a foreigner?

    Believe me I know how it is to feel like you, send me a private message if you love to...and we can talk in our own dialect if you want. Are you from Dumaguete? Don't worry I speak a few dialects, and few languages so we will find a way to communicate fully to your heart's desires.
     
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    josephen DI Senior Member

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    Haha - thank you. I meant private message via the DI, here. But of course your personal private email is welcome.
     
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    josephen DI Senior Member

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    And hey- what dialect do you speak? And do you know how to read your "Private Messages" here at the Dumaguete Info?
     
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    Yes i can speak visaya i do not know how to read private message in DI.
     
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    josephen DI Senior Member

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    Okey- after you logged into this forum, you will look something like this:

    Welcome, josephen.
    You last visited: Today at 03:07 PM
    Private Messages: Unread 0, Total 0.

    That is where you have to check your private messages (see the last line).

    Okey, sending you now, for a trial. Excuse me.
     
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