Unfortunately I go to Bacolod about once a month, since that is where the wife's family is and we have a house there. Traffic is horrendous, expansion is on-going quickly with no corresponding infrastructure to support a growing population.
We basically don't drive in the city, take taxi and hope to arrive at the destination in one piece.
If you don't play golf, it is pretty boring.
There are a few things that I guess one could say are nice. Costs of items are more expensive than here. Gas alone is usually 4 to 6 peso per liter higher.
For me the best part of visiting Bacolod is leaving and getting back to Dumaguete.