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  1. Notmyrealname

    Notmyrealname DI Forum Luminary Highly Rated Poster Showcase Reviewer

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    It is good to read postings from people with empathy - I think those who have it, know it and those who have none are unaware.

    I do not wish to discuss this particular case as I know nothing more than what is posted here but I think (and this will not be a popular comment with some guys) that in some cases of dispute between a man and a woman, the woman can feel very powerless and so strikes out with something that is more powerful than the man (be it a knife, gun etc.). If we think of women from poor situations who lives are lifted up financially by meeting a foreigner and then see that ebbing away from them (perhaps very suddenly), with thoughts of going back to what they had, perhaps having to face the scorn of their families, then it is not impossible to see where anger and frustration flows from. And add to that the very powerful emotion of love and it can end in an explosion. Something we all need to think about, especially if ever a difficulty arises in our own personal relationships.
     
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  2. Rye83

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    It has been stated many times that graphic images should not be posted on the forum. I personally find it distasteful and disrespectful not only to the victim but to their surviving family. When there is no one around to give consent it should be assumed that consent has not been given.

    I would also say this type of imagery doesn't do anything to prevent another murder. There is no rational or logical thought process behind these types of murders, it is pure illogical emotion, repercussions be damned.

    Leaving links to these images with a warning that the content is graphic is acceptable course of action and gives those that want to see it and those that don't the choice. It is a compromise that will be followed on this forum.
     
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    Showing pictures of a dead man in an endless loop is not an opinion, it is degrading the victim. that's the reason I do not like it.
     
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    Show Pony DI Forum Patron Highly Rated Poster Showcase Reviewer

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    I think showing graphic pictures on this forum is generally frowned on by most of the members.
    Asking people to subscribe to their YouTube channel ( on the forum) is a bit taky. I'm guessing that oops was unintentional.
     
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    Really..? seems like you are doing the same thing....
     
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    Charlie DI Senior Member Restricted Account Veteran Coast Guard

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    Respect other peoples opinion, isn't that what you just commented on another thread ? I think the pictures are fine, it's reality. People need a dose of real life not that fake TV shoot'em up garbage. Don't look if you don't want to. Maybe real pictures will wake some people up that it isn't some game. As ex military I saw up close in my face a whole lot worse than this and I know many other Veterans saw even worse than what I am still dealing with.
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    Horrible incident. But to this video; I try to see the good purposes of that guy remembering his friend, but I find it unreasonable to show the pictures of the victim, and additionally in constant repetition. this is inappropriate regarding the dignity of the victim. I do not want to see such thing again.
     
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    Did you get his permission to post his photos on the internet? If you did not get his permission you definitely should not post his photos.
     
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  9. Notmyrealname

    Notmyrealname DI Forum Luminary Highly Rated Poster Showcase Reviewer

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    You mean how does a dead person feel? I don't think anyone knows but it sure is not relevant to how the living feel. It seems you think showing a dead person will stop people from killing - if that were the case then surely after millions have been killed since time began, there would be no more killing. Fact: There is. Lots of it.

    I am also not comfortable with close friends of the deceased going on YouTube to tell the sad story and then asking viewers to subscribe to their channel - there is a time to ask and that was not it.
     
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