Even a short term experience would be too long for me..... . She could not afford what I would charge her. PatO, I hope you turned your son away from Delima when he visits. Having Delima as a potential daughter-in-law may be politically helpful, but ...... . The biggest benefit I could see in having Delima as part of my family will be the fact there there would probably be no incest in the family for those with good vision. @PatO