I don't feel guilty, because another expat act stupid, like I don't say all filipino are racist, because a few are. I keep distance to foreigner with bad behavior. A few times I told another expat, take a deep breath, and get oxygen to your brain, we are guest here, no matter how many years we have lived here.
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Some tourists simply do not care about local culture or tradition because the government and some private companies advertise things that have absolutely nothing to do with local culture (example: diving, "white" sand beaches, nature tourism, basically any activity on boracay or panglao). Many of the nicer resorts provide everything a person needs on vacation so their customers don't have to spend much time at all dealing with the locals or their culture.
If Filipinos don't want to deal with the culture and traditions of tourists then they shouldn't be begging for tourists to come to their island and spend money. This does not excuse being a disrespectful, rude and arrogant tw@t, that's not really acceptable anywhere I've been, but Filipinos need to also learn about other cultures and learn to excuse some of the things that do not mesh with their own culture.
People like to say that tourists are guests. Well, that is true.....but they were given an invitation through the form of the advertisements through the tourism department, part of the government that the Filipino people chose to represent them. A good host sould be accommodating to their invited guests and be tolerant to their beliefs and customs. It should be a positive learning experience for both the guest and the host.
Expecting every tourist to know everything about Filipino culture is a ridiculous and unrealistic expectation. You mentioned Thailand and taking off the shoes. Most Thai do not get super offended about it with tourists. It is such an uncommon thing in the West that it will slip most people's mind now and then. It happened to me several times during my last trip in Thailand. They knew my intent wasn't to offend and they politely reminded me that I needed to take off my shoes, which I promptly and sincerely apologized for and then removed my shoes. Thai people, in my experience, seem to understand that tourists are in a new place and taking in a lot of new information and experiences and enjoying themselves....and they were always polite and ready to explain their culture to anyone that asked. You don't get a lot of that in the Philippines; ask a Filipino why something is the way it is and you will usually get a "that's just the way it is" or a "if you don't like it go home". It is a sh*t attitude to have towards an invited guest.-
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Just don't give the authorities to reason to think bad of us. Persons who travel here, should be seen to be trustworthy and with manners (Good Ones)!
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if someone sh...ts in my garden I punish him and kick him out. thats why I understand and support the attitude of the local Filipino people here. a guest should follow the written and unwritten rules of his guest country. traffic violations is one thing and might be discussable, but abuse of women, minors, alcohol excesses in public etc is a no go - everyone of us knows some kind of these lunatics and nobody will miss them when they get deported. they ruin the reputation of all of us.
just one remark to the article in the chronicle. it starts with "government closes boracay" and this has nothing to do with rude behaviour of foreigners. it's about non-existing waste water management and illegal constructions in the environmental protection area. I just wish the local government would take the right actions in these issues here also.
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An article in the Negros Chronicle due to some incidents involving foreigners being abusive towards the locals.
City to discipline unruly foreigners - Negros Chronicle
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Too many expats think the Philippines owes them something.
We are guests in their country-if you don't like it then leave!!-
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What about the foreigners that get about wearing what looks like gangster patches on their backs ?
now they just look like twats, and should just go back to whence they came, they are a blight on the landscape and a bad reflection on the good foreigners, there is no need for that type, maybe the authorities might like to target them ?This message by kiwidude has been hidden. This message may be off-topic or have violated forum rules. (Show message)-
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As an expat --- Personally, I think that a huge percentage more are good actor expats than bad. Unfortunately, it is the bad actors that get the spotlight. I try to drive sanely in the midst of the chaos, I stop for people crossing the street, when there is an unending line of cars and somebody is trying to make a turn - I stop and wave them through even though all the cars behind me start honking at me for being considerate, I only park where I should park, I support local business and I tip generously. The thing that bugs me is being referred to as "a guest". I guess the government could kick me out if they wanted to, but I have my permanent residency, I've purchased a substantial property, I have a wife and family from here, I contribute socially and to the economy, I treat everybody I meet with respect - I have chosen this place to be my home, and this is where I live - it bugs me as my button issue when I am told I don't really understand, and my opinions don't matter, and to be looked down on as being only just a guest.
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