Some people can not take the hurt and the hopelessness that follows when you lose the one you love and you mistakenly thought the love was mutual. Alternatively, in the Philippines there are many to replace the one you lost. Reality, it is really so much a crap shoot to find the "right" one. This sad story is a lessons learned for guys coming over here meeting a chick on the internet and falling into the burning ring of fire. Proceed with caution, you are walking point in a dangerous territory.
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johncarson DI Member Veteran Army
Good thing they don’t do mental checks on those of us already in the country. Mornings at McDonalds might be mighty quiet.-
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A quick Google search of "what height is deadly to jump from" (which costs only 8-10 pesos at an internet cafe) would reveal this important bit of information:
Because of that I believe him when he says:
And since he did this at the mall with little consideration for what a lot of people would have to witness (and I bet he didn't have enough consideration/intelligence to even look before he jumped to make sure the drop zone was clear) I fully believe this:
If the mental illness was responsible for the stupidity and selfish behavior then I feel bad for this man. I believe that Germany has some decent mental health facilities and he could have gotten the help he needed in his home country. I feel even worse for the man if he didn't have anyone in his circle of friends or family (if that even existed) that didn't care enough about him to try to help him get the help he needed.
Suicides from expats and tourists are surprisingly common in Asia for some reason. Perhaps mentally ill/depressed people believe that a warm climate, a sexy lady and plenty of alcohol/drugs will ease their pain and suffering....I understand the brain is not functioning as it should when you have a mental illness or you're depressed but I personally don't believe those health issues makes people stupid in most instances. With the internet being what it is today the only excuse to remaining ignorant on an issue or problem is stupidity.....or if a person chooses to be willfully ignorant.
Note: I did go through a bout with depression when I was a teenager going through puberty myself (and, as most teenagers are, I was also quite ignorant on.....well, pretty much everything). I never seriously considered suicide though because I was lucky enough to have a family that cared enough to force me into seeing a shrink (and to get me medicine that countered the chemical imbalance going on in my brain) before it came to that. While my comments above might seem kinda harsh/cruel, I do kinda understand what the man was going through and I do feel for the guy's mental anguish.-
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DavyL200 DI Forum Luminary ★ Global Mod ★ ★ Moderator ★ Highly Rated Poster Showcase Reviewer
A man allegedly committed suicide by jumping off from the third floor of SM City Bacolod afternoon on Thursday.
The Bacolod City Masskara Festival Facebook page posted a couple of photos showing the lifeless body of the unidentified foreigner sprawled on the mall’s tiled floor while security personnel were calling for help.
The reason of the suicide was still unknown but some netizens claimed that his Filipina partner cheated on him and left him for another guy.
According to other accounts, he has attempted to end his life inside the mall around 9 PM on Tuesday but he was stopped.
Photos of the scene have circulated on Facebook after the incident happened. 'Foreigner' committed suicide by jumping off from the third floor of SM City Bacolod - Kabayan.Me-
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At least in Europe if you fall on hard times you can camp out, get a benefits pamphlet and maybe even a job.-
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John not often you speak but when you do its well thought out
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