I've been married to a Filipina from Dumaguete for 13 years now. I am still at a loss on how to put up with her temper/tampo when she gets mad. Usually happens once a month (wonder why?) and then the fangs and claws come out. Normally she is even tempered and nice. But when this happens, watch out! She will say the nastiest, hurtful, mean, terrible things she can imagine, just to hurt my feelings. Sometimes I wonder if she really means it and it only comes out when she is mad...does anyone else experience this with a Filipina and how do you handle it?