How to put up with Filipina Tampo?

Sadly, it's all about money. Thats all it is.

 

It's reasonable to assume then that some womens periods seem to last for 28 days.

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One way to quiet her up is to tell her you understand "it is her monthly time and that she is out of action", so she can do you and you can owe her one!

 

If, I as a man get pain in my ear or a fever for a week, (It's not like bleeding for a week every month), but don't we all have a reason to get grumpy once in a while?

 

Sorry, back to the OP. after 15 years with my wife, it doesn't happen too much, but when it does, I just leave the house until she is asleep then get into bed with her and tell her how much I love her. She may not respond, but in the morning it should be much better. That is what works for me.

 

My dear nice_sherwood,
I thought you would of known that abuse comes in many forms, verbal being one of them.
In UK it is grounds for divorce, if persued by the abused party.
With regard to monthly periods, from my experience of being married to a filipina, just a raised voice or the wrong look can cause offence. Far from verbal abuse is the opposite, the dreaded silence, that is far worse, especially if it goes on for more than a day.Even if you don't know what you said wrong.O-| help help

 

if a chick is grumpy each month 25% of the time, kick her out... too many fish in the ocean.

sorry sound hard, but there are enough who don't have that problem periodically. disagreements and arguments are normal once in a while and can be solved. but if she is a pain for a few days each month, get rid of her.

 

the thread starter didnt really mention the cause of why his gf called him names if he has said or done something. I definately understand what verbal abuse is, i have lived in sydney for 5 years and they take it seriously here.

you missed my point sir, if you dont mind me saying it. I said, when women have their periods they become easily irritated,moody and grumpy its because of the hormones and this is the time that women need more understanding from their partners.

if a woman snapped and said something nasty when she has her period, more than likely she doesnt mean it. Honestly i dont think any guy can understand what its like but i prefer you believe in what you believe. The thread starter asked for a woman's perceptive and i gave hhim my insight of course as a woman.

 

As to those men here that think that they know better, why dont you guys ask your partners what do they feel when they have their periods? Do they easily get irritated compared to when they dont have it. Take time to ask these sort of questions :-)

im quite surprised how some really thinks how they know what its like to be a woman.LOL

BUT if woman is just grumpy for no apparent reason even when she doesnt have her period, then i guess something is terribly wrong with her thats the time you should pack up your things and GET OUT!

 

What you forget is that specially in this country the foreigner brings the support to the chick. it is not him who has to get out, it is HER who has to be kicked out of the relationship.

you ain't find any wealthy Uypitching, Lees or Matiaos, hunting foreigner to support the guy and build them a house with pool... It is a very specific under-species of the filipina-family looking for social security nowadays (not talking about 15 years and longer ago).

Fair enough that an elderly western guy supports a younger lady who can be his granddaughter. When the lady takes it as a given fact and has issues no matter what the cause is, there is by no means any reason to waste time with her (as many don't have that much time left anyway).

That is the time to show HER the way out, not the other way around...

Anyway, next to grumpy chick, I also would kick her out if she always needs to have the last word, even it is a big pile of bullshit she says or hammers it into the keyboard ...