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Is there a Romanian in town?

Discussion in 'Expat Section' started by Jopliniac, Apr 15, 2012.

  1. Jopliniac

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    Hi everyone.
    I'm just a bit concerned.
    We have a Romanian neighbor just next door.
    And he's having issues with his wife.
    They are not fighting actually, but he keeps on yelling and shouting
    and slamming and breaking things up.
    We, the neighbors, are bothered by his behavior.
    As i am typing this, policemen are in the house next door to get the Romanian guy.
    But before that (a couple of minutes ago), he actually asked help from me and talked for an hour or two, trying to solve things out, i talked to him and talked to his wife who was locked in their room. And many things has happened. It's so long and hard to explain because it was also confusing. I was still even shocked myself because i was involved now in the issue, and i called the landlord and his family came. The landlord is Aussie.
    Any event but my point is, is there a Romanian guy here who speaks Bisaya or fluent English?
    Because police now are there, and he might be charged unfairly.
    I think he's just misunderstood because he's English is not that good. I mean, he speaks good English but when he tries to explain things, it's scattered and hard to follow.
    I think he's just misunderstood. So any Romanian guy in town, please help your fellow-Romani. It will be really good that he can explain things well in his language so he can explain all things in order and clearly and somebody is needed to translate everything so he can be understood well.

    Thanks.

    This has been going for almost two weeks now. But this time, there are already policemen.
     
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    I met this guy last week also after moving a mate in next door. I could not make any sense of what he said either but he is causing some damage and obviously has some issues with life!
     
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    A few days in the monkey house here might improve his attitude and he can work on his Visayan in there.
     
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    Davy, so you actually know the Romanian guy i am talking about?
    Where do you live? You said "after moving a mate next door", how do you exactly mean that?
    Because if you guys are neighbors, then we are neighbors!
    Anyway, yep, the Romanian guy i am referring really has several issues in life.
    And i think i understand him, that's why i kind of "pity" him when the police came, because they might just misunderstood him and put undeserved charges. But although he was wild lately.
     
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    We helped Reid move in next door with Peter last week and we were talking to him out the front, don't think he will be there much longer!
    I think he said something about going home but he has visa issues and cannot go but hard to understand.
     
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    Wow, so we are talking about the same guy!
    Do you also live near the area? or are you Mr. Reeds? or you're referring to Mr. Reed, because yep, he moved there last week, or last last week, i think.
    Any event, yes, i think he won't be there much longer since people were complaining about his behavior. He cusses, and shouts them, and bangs the door and gate, it's good that he doesn't lay his hands to anyone, esp. to his wife. (He loves his wife very much, and actually that's one of the reasons why he's gone mad)

    Yes the visas.
    No, he doesn't have problem with his visa, but to his wife.
    His wife doesn't have visa.
    Okay, this is the problem. (or maybe one of the problems, but i think this is really the issue)
    He wants to go back to Romania because he's losing already a lot of money here, and he's got no job, no source of generating money. He's only losing money. So he wants to go back because he has everything back there. If he goes, he wants to have his wife (Filipina) to go with him, but the wife doesn't (oops, no, COULDN"T) go because she doesn't have visas. So she said that he'll just go ahead and she'll follow when the visa is already cleared. But i dunno, he just don't want to leave alone without her.
    I think he's gone mad because of this, because he said he's got too many problem already regarding his ex-wife and daughter who are Canada. He said, he don't want to go alone because he doesn't want to lose anyone anymore from his heart. (yep, those were his words) So this is what i can conclude, he's afraid of leaving alone because he thinks that his wife might not go and have another man. This is related to his past issues because his ex-wife did this. So i think he got so traumatized with the past experience and now he's kind of getting paranoid about the issue of leaving alone without her, but he/they don't have control in the situation, so i dunno maybe he got so stressed out and just exploded and gone mad.
    He just loves his wife very much, his present wife, tsk for the sake of love.
     
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