lots of discussions about who we are and what they call us. So what are we who come here and hook up wth a partner 25-30 years younger than us called? No, not perverts, I say S for smart. For younger guys like Wyre and Dude and others who came here while still young, I give them a W for wise. So now we have LGTBQSW. . If you fall in another group please share if you want to.
I was 22 when I first visited the Philippines. I was called a lot of things back then...but "wise" sure as hell wasn't one of them.
I don't know that appending myself to LGTBQ is a proper representation. To fit in within that group I would either have to wear women's clothing or give / receive anal sex or blow jobs with another man. Of the above, I would wear women's clothing, especially given the alternatives. I appreciate how drag makes a joke out of gender and life in general. Though I don't know which category drag fits under. For men arriving here and hooking up with women 30+ years their younger, I would place them under a category which stands alone. Maybe take the W for yourselves as winner. Or a K for king. Truly, you have won. As perhaps a final bow on in the later stages of life and a "f*ck you" to the silliness that you have left behind. I think people get pissed about older men hooking up with much younger women because it feels like cheating in life. It doesn't fit within their box of how life should work. But there are no rules. Follow the law, don't infringe on the rights of others. Beyond that, cheat at every opportunity. If a line becomes an obstacle, push it as much as you are able and toe over it when you can. Or cross it if it's bullshit. Approach life as like a child who has to be told "no" and then do it anyway. Old men who want to hook up with a woman 30+ years their junior would be smart to do whatever they can to make that happen as long as long as it's fully consensual. Turns out there are such places where this opportunity exists and I salute those who have picked up on it. People get offended. They use this as an insult when they get angry with these men and life in general. Just like a redneck might call a black person a ****** when his football team loses or his lotto ticket doesn't win. Anything you can do to serve as a pre-emptive fu** you to these people is an extra bonus. To make the point crystal clear, get a t-shirt for your young girlfriend which reads "fu** you" - but only if she wants to wear it of course. Back to the topic of the thread, I propose another acronym to minimize the confusion. Keep in mind this is just a rough draft. Feel free to offer alternatives. This is a collaboration. FCBBQ - Football, chicks, Barbecue. You know, manly stuff. And not necessarily in that order.
