Health & Wellness Looking for Marriage Counseling, Family Therapy, Psychologist

I agree with my anonymous buddy. People seek marriage therapy in an attempt to change someone but in reality, the only person you should and can change is yourself. You don't need a counselor to change yourself. Philippine law does not yet provide for divorce but the lawyers can help with a legal separation. When you find out how much that will cost you, you may be more willing to change yourself to put up with her crap, or you may decide it is worth it to leave. That is the only kind of counselling that is required here.

On the other hand, if she is a church goer then ask her pastor/priest about counselling. Most clergy offer it.

 

Life is too short to make war instead of make love. Replacements are available here.

 

Why don't you just get her an account on the forum? All kinds of armchair therapists here.

 

But we have only offered sort-of-semi-expert-may-or-may-not-work-or-be-helpful advice for him. What about advice for her?

 

So my suggestion is you have to spend some pesos to get this fixed so why not buy a couple Viagras, give her one and take one yourself. You should be able to get something straight between the two of you. But if instead she takes the pill and leaves the house, see Dr. Dude's instructions.

 

I sort of gave up on changing others when I figured out I could not even help or change myself most of the time, so how much harder would it be to change others.

 

You are screwed man. Get out of town as quickly and silently as possible. Next time you pick a mate have a list of the characteristics you want and stick to it.
I have never seen anyone become a diligent worker that is old enough to marry, man or woman. Get out now, take Dude's advice.

 

Hi there, me and my husband are qualified counsellors. I am from the uk and he is Filipino. He has twenty years experience working with families couples and individuals so if you are interested just send me a personal message.
Christine

 

Hello Christine I know this a old post but I would like to take you up on this offer if you are still doing this kinda thing. I can’t figure out how to send a private message though.