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Meeting a NICE lady in Dumaguete

Discussion in 'Dumaguete City' started by Princeton, Jul 6, 2013.

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  1. nice_sherwood

    nice_sherwood DI Senior Member

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    If possible too, stay away from drama queens you'll find that they can seriously cost you a lot of money. Eg, a family member needs money for operation, have debts need to pay, got kicked out of her apartment or running away from home etc. if a girl start asking how much you make and will start asking for money that's a red flag to just back off. Go to the next one. Goodluck :-)
     
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    Larry,
     
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    And I for one agree with the 27 thing or more, but to each their own. I used the rule of "7" I think it is called. Take your age, divide it by 2 and add 7. some say that is the largest age difference for you to get along well. But I have seen some marry much younger gals and it has turned out super. In my case I married a 38 year young gal at that time 7 years ago and couldn't have done better. She had no children and neither do I, so that was some big common ground. Best wife ever. Perhaps as the old saying goes "Third times a charm".
     
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    Lots of good advice here amigo, take it slow and be cautious. Helps if u hook up with some people here who can help u check out the locals. That being said, the site, DATE IN ASIA, is free and has a huge base of members from all over the Phils. Dont just limit yourself to Duma! Cebu has some real advantages. I have friends in Davao City and its nice there. Be careful about Zamboango, Although Zambo used to be a big Spanish port in the early days and a lot of the people have a lot of Spanish blood in them, there are lots of Moslems in the area and they are trouble. Especially stay out of Basilan, Sulu, etc
     
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    Their is many 27 year old plus that have not suffered all the promlems brian Ausie speaks, about of all the guys ive met have had better results with older girls than a young one that watches pinoy channels on tv and txing 24/7.
    I think a girl that been through collage OR one that has gone to work to support the younger members of the family can be 27 year old or more .

    An older lady is less likely to have many younger family members to support, I am sure the all have heard of all the tricks .
    Remember its a trade off , why would a pretty young girl want to be married to a old smelly fart like me if it was not for a better life and maybe some help for her family.
    good luck
     
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    Myself, after quite a number of years looking for the right one, had narrowed the age thing down to between 26 and 31. So many in their early 20's have a very low level of maturity, and having little life experience make choices and commitments they soon regret and want out of. Once they hit mid thirties, they are often set in their ways. They are often inflexible and closed minded. Cross cultural relationships can be tough, BOTH parties must be flexible and remain open minded.

    Eventually I married a 24 year old, who had the looks of a 13 year old, and the life experience of a 30 year old. Ten years later she has matured, but still has her youthful attitude and now she looks 22. Her family call her "Ga", short for Panga, which means lovable. It fits, everybody loves Rony. My days are full of joy and laughter.

    Larry
     
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    Umm, no. He said he wants to meet a nice girl. The only girls on there I trust are the ones that say, "I want a man to support me".
     
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    there are many younger gals that love their smelly old farts not just for capital gain, mine is a very good example, hey Alex axe spray on helps with the old smell lol
     
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    Why is it that some of you guys make AGE a big fuss? If your retired and you would like to date a young girl you'll find that most of them are still immature and some can maybe more than a handful. Just think of what you did back then when you were on your 20's.
    there maybe some nice young ladies but are they really the marrying type? Or will they make a good housewife?

    i think 28 + for an average retired foreigner would be the suitable age. We're talking about how in the long run they can cope up with each other's personalities? The cultural difference is already a big thing plus experience.

    how do you expec a 20 year old to carry a conversation with a 50-60 year old? Half of the time she wouldnt understand what your talking about. Experience wise, it'll probably make you frustrated.

    i suggest drop your expectations, forget the age or the appearance just take it easy... Theres alot of women in philippines surely you wont run out.

    my husband is 20 years older than me. Were both single (never been married when we met) amd first year of marriage was a shocker. I didnt know how to toast a bread nor use the microwave, even worse when i had to do our laundry. Personality- wise we often clash because i a, stubborn amd he thinks that his always right because his older and his got more experience but after a couple trips to our marriage counsellor, it was really tough at first but we refused to give up on each other.

    being in a relationship with 2 different cultures can be tough sometimes. since you are looking for a nice filipina i hope you are prepared to brace our culture and traditions, it can be easy to find a nice girl but getting along and understanding her needs and where she comes from will be a different thing.

    just my opinion.
     
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