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  1. Phillippinesfan

    Phillippinesfan DI Junior Member

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    Happiness has to be worked on. No one can make you happy unless you believe that they do.
    Some real day to day processes will go a long way to raising one's emotional state of being.
    If someone drags you down you always have the tools to get back to where you were more quickly.
    Think less, appreciate more, is a good start.

    Money is important, in that if you are not working anymore, you can concentrate on other things without worrying too much.

    Especially important for expats, who's happiness depends on them being able to provide security and a better life for their loved ones and siblings.
     
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  2. Notmyrealname

    Notmyrealname DI Forum Luminary Highly Rated Poster Showcase Reviewer

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    So a salesman tells me a car worth $6,000 is worth $10,000 and that is good for me???

    I prefer more analytical approaches to life - and that can be very simple, no need to be complex.
     
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    john boy DI Forum Luminary Highly Rated Poster

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    Believing in something is good for you!
    Whether that's a product or God, relies on how much you wish solve whatever is troubling you.
     
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    Notmyrealname DI Forum Luminary Highly Rated Poster Showcase Reviewer

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    If 'God' is a six-sided box and each side is a different colour/texture (etc) then 6 people, each looking at different sides, would have 6 different descriptions of 'God'.
     
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  5. Philpots

    Philpots DI Senior Member Restricted Account

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    I think the Spanish version of the Catholic church had to adapt very quickly to the superstitions of the local islanders whom they met here when and started the process of Christianizing the population. I am not an expert on this subject but I was surprised not long after I arrived to see a very old and somewhat crippled old lady crawling, yes, on her hands and knees, going from statue to statue in the Sibulan church, kissing the feet of the idols. This was extremely difficult for her to do but she was determined to complete the task. Devotion to the extreme but not I think indicative of what is the norm for the catholic church. It appeared to me to be an adaption to the natural superstitions of the early indigenous peoples. Any one have any thoughts on this.
     
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    In the early days my asawa would not go downstairs (not a euphemism) after dark because she believed there were ghosts. But my English mother used to step on the handle of a knife when it fell on the floor, throw salt over her shoulder if any was spilled and had a blood charm to stop bleeding.

    These things exist in all cultures.

    But there are many things here which don't fit with the country being "devoutly Christian". They have a very abridged version of the Ten Commandments!
     
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  7. Always a Poppy

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    Developing the vampire theme and going further off-topic (if that's possible in an 'Off-Topic' thread), the superstitions here are interesting. The locals all seem to believe firmly in ghosts and this so called 'third eye' thing. My wife won't go out to the garden at night to check her precious fish unless I stand in the doorway and watch. Every time she starts talking about the Third Eye, I turn my back, drop my pants, bend over and show her mine. Not sure if that's being disrespectful, but usually brings a laugh. It's a strange belief for a mostly devoutly Christian nation.

    Are there any other such superstitions I should look out for? I've made my thoughts on this kind of thing quite clear in this forum with the Buddha saying as I tend to believe nothing until it's proven (or posted by the provincial government on fb).
     
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    Jessie77 DI Member

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    Maybe not but at least you can ride around in comfort looking for it.
     
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    That is onlypart of her title Her full official title is Elizabeth the Second, by the Grace of God of the United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland and of Her other Realms and Territories Queen, Head of the Commonwealth, Defender of the Faith.
     
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    grandpainak DI Forum Patron Showcase Reviewer

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    You are right it can't buy you love... It can, how ever, buy you something that feels a lot like love.:smile::muted:
     
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