I don't think you will have much luck in other forums with posting the same topic 3-4 times in different categories. It's just how forums work.....very few Admins/Moderators will allow it.
I see no problem with you posting a request for an experienced sailing couple to join you or teach you how to sail. Just know that your post here reads as an thinly veiled advertisement for a beach resort or boat touring company. I wouldn't think your average person would invest in (re)building a sail boat without first knowing how to sail.
After talking to you I think you are honestly just looking for another couple to either teach you to sail or share the cost of hiring a captain. I would suggest you offer to meet up in Dumaguete with a couple first to make sure they are legit (and give them a chance to make sure you are legit). If I were in the market to steal a boat I would just have you meet me in Leyte, sail out sea, pull a gun and tell you and your husband to start swimming. Gotta be careful in the Philippines, there is a scam and/or a person looking to make a quick buck around every corner.