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i would like to move to the philippines
Posted in General Philippines by fancydelancey on the April 25th, 2009
i understand what you are saying about relatives wanting to mooch money from you.in 1974-1976 i was in the navy and spent some time in p.i. it was terrific and i will never forget the experiance.i have been unhappily married now for many years and until recently the philippines was just a distant memory in the back of my sub-concsious mind.recently however,my younger brother has bagan to correspond with a fillipina girl on some fhilapina dating service on the internet.well let me tell you that in my mind he really opened up a can of worms (a very large can) and he really got me thinking about the philippines and the women that live there.i have been carfully researching the philippines on the internet now for more than two weeks and let me tell you that i want to go there right now so bad that i can taste it.my life has been so hum drum now for so long and my marrige so rocky that going to the philipppines is almost more temptation than i can handle.on top of all this living here in america really stinks right now.i hat california and i despise the town i live in.perhaps i am being ungratefull but it is hard for me to exist at my age here in california.im not very old though.i just turned 53 two days ago.my business is doing lousy and my marriage is almost beyond repair.it is more than tempting to take the money that i have and retire early to the philippines,leaving my wife and child behind to fend for themselfs.of course i would get a legal divorce first.does anyone out there have any advice for me!!!.am i not intitled to be happy the remainder of my days?

Take care all.

 

Airport!

:D We will send a Greeting Party to the Airport. Name the day. We all need that happiness!


Jack P.

 

First you need an operation to correct the nerves that are crossed. Obviously you optic nerve is crossed with your rectal nerve giving you a $hitty outlook on life.

You will be miserable whereever you go because you will bring it with you.

You have a right to be happy? Of course you do but that does not relieve you of your responsibility to your child that you will leave to "fend for themselves".

Any woman that would have anything to do with you would be making a huge mistake because you would treat her and any children you might have the same as the one you are leaving behind.

 

Happiness-V-Responsibility!

To stay in a pointless relationship is not good. Always better to look at things when we are happy. Responsibilities to our children comes in many ways. There is no love in a bad marriage, the children always suffer, Bin there and done that, I moved on and dealt with the Divorce from a distance. All my 3 Children from my previous marriage, will agree that I did the right thing. It is ALWAYS about money and this can be done from anywhere. I moved out, she was happy, I was happy and the children never suffered. We have a responsibility to our selves also to be happy. Divorce is never good BUT can be a lot better if the stress is relieved.


Jack P.

 

interesting...I was troubled by the posting as well, not the divorce part of but more that they didn't seem to be wanting to come to the PI for the right reasons perhaps. Not sure if it works doing it trying to escape being unhappy.

 

this may be paradise...

but be careful..

you will get burned if the reasons arent right....if you come here for the wrong reasons, it's like escaping from a fire only to wake up in hell...

of course you are entitled to your happiness... chase it! no one is old enough to be finding happiness...

im rooting for you finding happiness...whatever it is that makes you happy, make sure that all loose ends shall be tied in the end...

shall i now prepare the pom-poms and the banners for your arrival? name the day

cheers!

 

Hey Guys I am not even sure who fancydelancey is. I just read that post on another forum it made me chuckle. I do of course hope his wife and child have not been just abandoned. It was maybe a rant at a bad time for him, He could well be a good chap.
If I find out any further news from fancy I will post it here it might be interesting.

Take care all.

 

moving to philippines actually helped me be able to support my son better(save more money therefore send his mother more money in New york.) I met filipina woman this weekend widowed with 4 children,works 6 days away from children just to be able to feed them only sees them on sundays,my debate is do i like her enough to help her fend for her children as part of spending time with her...Hmmm different outlook?