Oh my, I wasn't calling you a "b****y lady". There was certainly something to take offense to but questioning or assuming your gender wasn't one of them. Try to relax a bit, no need for panic.
It could have been much worse! https://www.nosweatshakespeare.com/resources/shakespeare-insults/ Some of my favourites: " “Thou leathern-jerkin, crystal-button, knot-pated, agatering, puke-stocking, caddis-garter, smooth-tongue, Spanish pouch!” Henry IV Part 1 (Act 2, Scene 4)" “You starvelling, you eel-skin, you dried neat’s-tongue, you bull’s-pizzle, you stock-fish–O for breath to utter what is like thee!-you tailor’s-yard, you sheath, you bow-case, you vile standing tuck!” Henry IV Part 1 (Act 2, Scene 4) And something I was totally unaware of “Virginity breeds mites, much like a cheese.” All’s Well That Ends Well (Act 1, Scene 1)"
do you notice people looking at you askance? (see also suspiciously, sideways, disdainfully) not me of course but i notice it in the other guy
Of course Perhaps they are thinking “Methink’st thou art a general offence and every man should beat thee.” All’s Well That Ends Well (Act 2, Scene 3)
