⌛ who ever said he/she has not lied

i know lies are not good. but cud u ever blame a person when he/she lies to preserve his/her self?...who ever invented these lies? and how painful it is to be told that u are one bit of a liar.. when u kept things to urself, and not finding the urge to tell watz inside u.. is this lying then?

i may have lied several times but only for self-preservation and not to cause trouble to anyone else..i have always been true to myself.. that sometimes i admit going overboard..being expressive and admitting how much hurt i feel.. sometimes left me vulnerable..

 

Hi wiNkz,
Honest you sound very depressed in your post, but we would not be DI if there is no space for that too.
Everybody lies - EVERYDAY !!!,
it might be prevention or avoiding to hurt somebody. Everybody has to make that up with him/herself. For sure there are acceptable lies. You don't wanna say to a kid coming home with a painting from school:

"f... off, I got headache, what the hell is that, thats what they teach you in school ? I want the schoolfee i paid back!!"

When my girl asks me "What do you think about my new shoes/handbag/dress/T-Back/.....? "
I will be more honest, but the honesty is also in direct relationship to the paid price... hehe. So the answer could be :"Great, at least we don't need to spend money for your costume at Helloween..." I usually have to go out for diner then.. walang food at home...

But how about if He comes home drink with lipstick on his shirt. Hmm, probably it makes no real sense to lie.

and what about he/she comes home did something bad? Is saying nothing a lie? If you get asked about that topic and you are not honest or don't answer at all, it is a lie (at least in my opinion).

Her most common lie: I am ready in five minutes...

His most common lie: I only had two beers....:D :p

Saturdaynight cheers

Rhoody

 

some everyday lies

• We'll stay only five minutes
• Drinking? Why, no, Officer
• No new taxes
• There are no bones in this fish.
• This will be a short meeting.
• I'll respect you in the morning.
• The check is in the mail.
• I'm from the government, and I'm here to help you.
• This hurts me more than it hurts you.
• I'll be there Sunday, I promise!
• We pause for a few brief announcements.
• I love your new hat/haircut/dress/suit
• He doesn't normally act like this when he's been drinking
• I am fine
• Don't worry, he's never bitten anyone, he only wants to play
• Officer, I can walk without any assistance

and some common love-lies:

• Everyone does this, it's perfectly normal.
• It's dangerous to your health to get excited and then stop.
• I'll stop as soon as you say. [She's heard this one before, huh?]
• I'll tell her(him) tonight.
• Well, the clinic said I was clear!
• Nobody can hear us. [Yea, that's what you think!]
• I'll never put myself through this again.
• Sex isn't everything. [a cigarette after is the same important, no wonder i need 2 packs]
• It's not your fault.
• I'm allergic to rubber.
• We'll try again when we wake up.
• It has a mind of it's own.
• I love you because of your charakter
• This has never happened before.
• My wife doesn't understand me.
• Trust me, I'll take care of everything. [my flight is booked, I am off tomorrow morning at 8:15]
• Of course I love you.
• I am getting a divorce.
• But we can still be good friends.
• She means nothing to me.
• I'll respect you in the morning. [if you wash the dishes, clean up and leave silent, without waking me up]

Hey WiNkz, I hope you smile noe a bit again...

cheers

Rhoody

 

Lies but all lies lols...the ancient old trick .
I have lied today once ,ok , only a white lie ,got bit of head ache..i haven't actually ,blooming fine .lol

C'mon winkz ,wot happened,agree with rhoody you sound depressed.

 

Hi..winkz ! Lies can be bad if it make you feeling bad , cause depression ,insomia and lots more of negative feeling. No one is perfect but makes no one make you unperfect.

 

Winkz,

there are plenty of fishes in the ocean,,,sounds familiar(for dumaguetenia),hehehhehe

 

...he.hehe...hee....your lies only tell you're human not a robot Thanks for narrating all the bedroom lies , i thought its an excused not a lie. I STAND CORRECTED!
To my boyfriend, you're right honey!

 

guyz.. am so touched.. u made me feel a little better... well i just made a stupid mistake.. -- invading someone else's privacy.. and admitting to that person that i definitely did invade his/her privacy.. well, it just went so bad.. and i can't blame the person for being upset with me.. don't know.. i hope he/she could really finally understand and forgive me for doing that stupid thing i did..:(

 

In time I'm sure he/she will

 

next time winkz don't get caught. to get curious is pretty normal and sometimes people go further to some lengths just to satisfy their inquisitive minds,but then think ahead of the possibilities of dreadful consequences like getting caught,ok.Have plan A,B C on ,if this and that happens , this is wot u gonna do,this n that ,think of the escape plan ,unless ur under point of a gun never admit.lol but ignore that , that's silly me . if you admit and apologize ,if that makes u feel better then do it.

but for nxt time if there's 90% chance getting caught ,hold on think about it , if ur high risk taker ready to face any consequences , u make the choice.