⌛ Generally Pissed Off (sentiments of the leaking bladder)

OH and I almost forgot, finish the whole darn thing. People get into trouble like that. (Think about not completely reading instructions in an exam) You might be surprised. Were you that bored or you just don't like me at all? that's okay, whatever your answer is that's fine by me. you can't please everyone. (believe me I know).

 

now that's...wait a minute...someone might not like it.

ikaw gyud, don't generalize he he he...wink.

thanks anyway, you made my day too.

 

why would you consider my reply as angry? you have taken the high ground and can only see the issue from your own point, and yes you do come across as portraiting yourself as more intellegent!

You have not looked at the womans attitude from her perspective, if she's doing a job that is unappreciated, as it sounds!! so she must therefore get a lot of grief and back chat off lots of people, you, that day, perhaps caught the backlash of her troubled and unappreciated job.

also to assume that people don't know who you are talking about, and saying look her up, is demeening and presuming others intellegence!

ps - bottom line is usually ON THE BOTTOM LINE and not followed by 2 more paragraphs.

Double posting don't make your post more intresting or correct.

well done for breathing this time and paragraphing, although the content remains flakey, you tend to write more to express your point, this adds little to the context or point of your arguement.

The ANALYSE THAT! was meant to be light hearted, but you in your anger took it as meaning something else.

it also meant think of the other persons life and situation before you start, if for some reason she didn't do "her job" and was sacked from it, god knows how many would suffer in her family.
if you have a complaint against the woman personally, put your case to the correct authorities, not on a forum where she can't reply or even learn the error of her ways, she will just continue to be the pain in the ar$e you say she is.

 

sorry for the double post, my internet connection was acting up and i wasn't sure if my previous actions were carried out, so I had to keep doing it--hence the double post.

(sigh) you're right. i was very angry, so quick to do things that i wasn't thinking straight. i'm not supposed to be angry at you. i got mislead.

I'm only supposed to be angry at her. And because of my vulnerability, you got caught in the crossfire. you're just trying to help and I apologize.

If I remember correctly, ALL CAPS are a no no in chat rooms and forums because it sounds like you are shouting. But I see now that that wasn't your intention.

But you would also agree with me that i had every right to be angry, not at you but at her. Don't get me wrong, I am not a bad person. I wouldn't hurt a fly and that's precisely why I got so angry. Why would some people hurt me when I wouldn't hurt them? Why did she shout at me at first place? I wouldn't shout at anyone no matter how complicated things get. I lost control of my inner belief about always being good to people. I was so angry that I didn't care who got caught in the process. i was so angry that I didn't care what i wrote, how i wrote it, why I wrote it. To tell you the truth, this is my first post about being angry.

I was so angry that the last thing I needed was to appear vulnerable and so I had to defend myself in any way I can think of--I didn't want people to think I was weak. That was wrong, I admit. I was so vulnerable that it took away my judgment--about what you had to say and I apologize.

My writing is not perfect and I appreciate your pointers--really I do. It might sound so hard to believe because you don't personally know me but that's the truth. I know too that it might be hard for you to believe that i'm a good-hearted person because of my lack of conduct. But that's true, as well. i was just so angry i misread all your messages and i apologize. sorry for hurting your feelings.

You said, I had to think about the life and situation of the other person before I start. I couldn't have said it better myself. But don't you think she too had to think before she had to start? (Sigh) At least, I deserve that part, don't I?

I just wanted to express distress about what happened and I believe I have done that.

I offer nothing but peace and gratitude to you, for your insights and concern. Please accept my apologies. It was never my intention to hurt your feelings at all.

 

you have taken me all wrong, i don't ask for or want an appology, since coming to the philippines i have had to TRY and learn to control my attitude, i have always expected things to be done correctly and using common scence, sadly here ppl are not given any responsibility to use judgement or there own common sence, so they just follow orders. to the general public they seem stupid, to her it's keeping her job and feeding her family.

i have never seen poverty on such a scale anywhere except in china, everyone should understand these points

i am totally for womens rights and should i say rights that go above and beyond that for men, they have had it too easy forever, yes some women abuse power, but how many men have done this over the years, you will not find many women like this. when one does act like that you are taken aback as it's out of character, ask yourself, would a man have caused you to respond like you did? possibly not as it's expected from him.

ty anyhow for your appology, but it's un-necessary as it wasn't needed, all i offered my an alternative to you being angry, besides a smile at those types of people normally has a bigger effect and generally makes them think about there own attitude, however sarcastic the smile maybe.

 

thank you, for your understanding

I agree with what you said, it's hard to choose between making good judgments and keeping your job when poverty is almost eating at your door. Heck, I wouldn't take a chance no matter what. I would rather 'look stupid' to people than lose my job.

Indeed, if a man was in her place, would I have responded like I did? Probably, I wouldn't...that's the sad part though. There are many expectations men are entitled to and some of them are not given to women, even as simple as what you have pointed out. Generally, women look like they shouldn't be angry because they are women. But that's not supposed to be the case. They can and should be angry as well. However negative the traits are, women should have them because that's what makes us humans after all. Then, we deal with these traits as it is and should not be tagged to any gender.

I think this is what it should be. Freeing women from the shadow should not only mean giving them idealistic/righteous opportunities (at the eyes of the public) but those things that might not be ideal as well. Come to think of it, this should be stressed out in literary criticism--well there might be but I haven't come across it yet.

Anyway, a million apologies to you even if you said it was not needed. everyone should know how sorry I am. Now I feel very embarrassed. I feel like I should delete the posts, but if I did, no one would be able to know the important points that were made, especially how excellent the ending turned out to be. I guess it's like a story, there are complications but the ending always have resolutions.

I shouldn't get my emotions ahead of me. Anger is not an answer and I suppose I fell victim and had a relapse. But in the end, you have given me so many ideas--something I haven't come across books yet. Funny how you get to know things in interesting ways, other than the teacher-student scenario. These are very good ideas that I might write in a narrative--I just have to think about ways to do it. I suppose books don't really have all the answers--or maybe I haven't read enough he he he.

I'll take your advice about the smile--no matter how sarcastic it is. That way, I wouldn't feel so guilty about how I reacted.

 

Well good evening everyone out there in DUMS. I lost my connection the last time I post here , and I can't type thank you to those people who responded my FORUM the last time I was here, and I have a problem logging on , for some reson can't remember my password, so I send it to reset, but I have 2 already, so now I use the 2nd one,,,, anyway,, thank you all.....

 

hi thanks for your response, i've found that the best ways of learning is through real life, whilst books can be very descriptive and informative, you only ever get the authors aspect, books written in different countries or during different times are often biased to that particular time frame or what's allowed to be printed!!

when i visited China for instant i saw a completely different picture to that the world saw during the olympics, and i dare say i still never saw the really horrible side of the place either.

i found that if you try and take in all that is offered and then decide yourself, after all every1 has differing ideas on what's right and wrong, your own ideas and instincts are often better than others in most circumstances. advice is always freely given, good advice has to be sifted out.

best of luck with your future

 

Endymion-Dave
Anybody who has the time to write all this.....can't be doing much studying !
Chill out Man and admit your wrong.......I never won an argument with a woman yet!! hehehe.
ooops you all ready have ....I was wrong....hahaha