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Hello hadassa.. good question rhoody, i had not notice that we have a makati girl on board.

 

hello! thanks guy's for your reply. i need some help and i need your opinion........i have a BF from Australia since 9years, who is supporting me and now i am in Australia with him, but im in love with guy i meet 4 years ago in PG. and wish to be back in the Phil. soon

 

hadasa,

sino ba talaga ang gusto mo? heheheh, either you choose some who have, someone who have and you love, and someone you love.

 

Hadassa,
It depends what you are looking for in your life, 9 years is a long time. The guy from PG is also foreigner? I think we need some more information about your situation... It is hard to say anything without a few more infos. You will see there will be some good advices on the board...
I wonder what our ladies on the board thinking...

All the best to Australia

Rhoody

 

my thoughts exactly

 

WOW... I thought the boys here are bad and insulting, but the girls fraek out if somebody steals their nail-polish...
the only thing I can do is deleting all that Karabow-poo. I can have a better evening than that... I try to make a summery of the posts leaving all bad things out...

PN wants to know:

• what’s the nature of relationship that connects you with this guy in PG you claimed you fall inlove with, or can’t live without?
• In your own jugdement does PG boy feel same way you do ?Or is this only a onesided love affair , meaning it’s only you so besoted ,fooled by your own emotions. You must have some indicators . Does this PG has the worth for you to come back for him ?
• Was it only a brief affair ? Long time secret affair ?
• Only my curiousity,is this guy in PG a pinoy or a foreigner ?
• Does he really want you back?
• Do you keep in touch with this PG guy while living with your Australian fiancé or husband?
• Are you now married to this guy in Australia or about to marry ?

This were PN questions, I left away all the what if things, as we don't know it, and in the hope we will get an answer to this questions first...

Her post closed with:
You have the answers hadassa. All depends with what you want .Think about it more ,and make decisions carefully .


next post was Dumaguetenia, she has no idea or questions about the situation, just gives the statement:
...give that aussie a life he deserve.


than John Boy said: ...so long baby you dont deserve me!


next was Maryfee with the following questions:

• I do not know what the support is. (a lot of money, school, health support)
• I don't know anything about the PG guy (foreigner, philippino, Tourist, Expat)
• I dont know much more about the Aussie guy.
• How many times do they see? (as I see it she is on a visit there in Australia)
• What is the relationship between the PG guy and Hadassa.
• Maybe money is all the Aussie guy can give? (what is many times the case between philippinas and foreigners)

she mentioned to be a reader of this forum for some month but this was her first post. related to the chat she gave at the end the following additional information about herself:
I had a 8 year relationship, but after that time it was a kind of worn out. We had no kids, so we broke. Why should I waste the rest of my life with someone I like a lot but not love anymore, just because he "deserves" it ??? No way, I will not throw my life away. The guy I am together now has less money, but a personality and character, but he can make me happy and I am happy to give him what he "deserves"... all my care and love

I don't wanna be in Hadassas situation, like it sounds shes not happy about it, so lets do what you did before and try to help


India-One basically agreed with Maryfee


Now the new DI chicken-Pit-arena had it's grand opening... but had to be closed down again due to too many breaks to refresh the make-up...


Jellyfish was sureprised about several reactions


and finally Boyette brought everything back to the point:

By the way, Hadassa, where are you my dear? Hope we did not scare you away... you have just witnessed a vibrant and democratic forum in action- and there's nothing more to it, i assure you. But we do want to help you with your predicament, that is if you still want it.

I wish you the best... get guidance from above, from a friend, relative or even from strangers like us. Anyway, by the end of the day, it will still be your decision.


I actually wanted to write another " What's going on in Dumaguete this week" article but I am not in the mood anymore...

good night

Rhoody

 

wow nice to know you got now the promotion as the janitor rhoods:D (hey only a joke lols ,)not so stinky anymore here and full of strong air freshner.

I actually trip over the poo ,goodness .I am out of this thread , my shoes need some cleaning.

 

Amen to that!!!!!

 

Hi Everbody;
My final comment about Hadassa's predicament! Im not sure that its her life story that she wants to hear our opinion, to the contrary that story appear to comes from the "Harlequin Romance Novel" as it sounds not applicable to real life story as the moral not politically correct!

 

hello guys!
I am only online once or twice a week, so thank you very much for your response. Sorry that I did not give many information in my first posts and maybe confused some people. Gene, it is real, and believe me I am not very happy at the moment. So let’s talk about the Australian and PG guy.
My Australian is my long time BF, and yes he gave me support money ,school, everything. He is a nice man but our relationship is just like this:
If he wanted me to go there to Australia, he will buy a ticket and I go there for some month, or if he want to see me in Philippines, he comes for a vacation. Each year I saw him 2 x, that’s it. He does not have any plans about us, about our future… that is my Aussie one.

And my man I met in PG 4 years ago, like I told you guys, I felt in love. He is very nice too and has lots of plan about the/our future. He is a foreigner too, and he works and lives in the Philippines since many years. He really loves our country. When I met this PG-man nothing happened between us at that time four years ago and he did have a girlfriend too. When we talked there was this blistering between us, each time we were closer than 10 meters to each other. I was in PG with my Aussie guy. But really, nothing happened between the PG-guy and me, even not a hug in PG. By the way he is not working there in PG for a long time anymore, but still working in the Philippines.

After I left PG with my BF, I did not have contact for a long time with the PG guy, and I stopped answering his mails and txt’s. I know that time that I am in love with him. That’s why I stop texting, or reacting on call’s or e-mail of him. At that time I still have a hope to my BF.But last time when I have been to Australia we talked about our future: and he does not have any plans for us at all. It seems like he just needs a girl from time to time, when he is not so busy in his Job. He has to travel a lot in everywhere in Asia.
… and this PG man he still tried to contact me after almost 3.5 years and this year August we meet for some days/weeks. And when we met I still feel grounded and love him, and I know he love me to.

When you guy's asking me: What is a Makati-woman doing on the Dumaguete - board. You have relatives here? No, I don’t have relatives in Dumaguete but I have been there last September with my PG BF and I like it there. So maybe I going to move there with my PG BF, if he still there for me when I get back. I am in Australia since a few days now for some reasons, to make up my mind my final decision and to find out if my Aussie BF still only wants a girl twice a year, and I need to talk to him, anyway.
your right maryfee, i don’t care if I have less money with the PG-guy, but a personality and character, he can make me happy and I am happy to give him what he "deserves"... all my care and love....that is what I am looking for! I want to be together with my love or my partner or my future husband... that is it …thanks for listening.

Hadassa