The whole story??? There two sides to a story just like there are two people involved in a romantic relationship. I am thinking you’re not telling this forum the whole story. You say you broke up with him. But I think he dumped you and you are angry! Here is why – you say you searched DIA for the other GF’s ID, then contacted her and told her everything to ruin the relationship with her and your ex-BF. This is an act of revenge, and revenge is done out of anger! I think you did something to upset him enough to want to leave you. Perhaps you had other BFs like he had other GFs, and he discovered them. Then, so it looks like he is the one to blame, you did your best to discover his GFs and faults. I know Filipinos hate to take the blame for something or take responsibilities for failures. Girls love to make the guy into the unfaithful and cheating one. I wonder what you did to hurt your relationship. And, you come on this forum looking for sympathy from others as you make yourself appear to be the one who is hurt. Maybe you are hurt and maybe he is too, but there HAS to be more to the story. If you’re good to your man, chances are better he will stay with you. My advice for you is to let the past be the past, and forget that last relationship. It seems to be over. Also, it is unusual for a DI forum member to use their full name as their member ID. I assume that is your real name. Also, putting your email address in your posting is a poor idea! I’m surprised the moderator didn’t refuse your posting. I’ll be in the PI in a month or so. Maybe we can talk further about this person to person. I do counseling professionally.