Agreed, my response did not merit a response though?

 

Yours was a good response, not a question. I don't feel that I have anything to add to that. Well, not without launching into a mini book.

 

Point taken but why are we all writing in English?

 

I like your style Dude, you are a very funny man.
Just one question though...what do you do when your girlfriend cheats on you with another women,
shut your eyes and dont watch, or have a little peep? lol

 

Welcome, Freak. There may not be enough room in this forum for "The Dude" and "The Freak" - but let me give you a freak answer to your question.

If there are people ****ing in my house, I'm watching.

That's the rule, I have it posted on the front door. There are no exceptions. Generally it's best to stay away from my place if you think you might be affected by this rule. If my parents visit, they get a hotel room.

And this isn't a peep show. I'm grabbing a flashlight, binoculars and a hazmat suit.

If I catch my GF cheating on me, I'm pissed only if I missed the opening act. After that, they go on their way and I get back to doing something important. I have greater things to be bothered with than by what a couple of young people are doing with their own time.

 

Thanks for your advice Dude.
All I need to do now is to buy binoculars, and a hazard suit....I already have a flashlight.
Would a sound recorder be a good thing to get also, or would that be overkill?
Great Freaking advice to get from a very knowledgeable person such as yourself Dude.
I will draw up a game plan and put it into action.
Cheers Dude.

 

Do not believe gender is the critical factor in cheating....both men and women cheat....for different reasons and with different results....Here is the Philippines the inclination to cheat.....especially in "May-December" foreign relationships is more often the Filipina....for several reasons....not the least of which is the fact that many foreigner-Filipina relationships are economic not emotional....and there is the added component of age and culture....when a Filipina is in a Foreigner-Filipina relationship....she suffers in her culture....she is considered a wh*re.... a goldigger....Filipinas are very proud....they suffer this stigma to survive....not many "rich" Filipinas go with Foreigners....in fact most to not even wand to associate with them....just the Purok girls....
The additional force besides the excitement and sex of cheating....is a slight elevation in social status that cheating brings..... instead of being a wh*re who sells her body and youth for financial gain....by cheating she becomes a LITTLE better by being a golddigger that USES the foreigners....exploits the foreigner....still not good but at least better than a wh*re....

I might add this is not true of ALL Filipinas.... just most....some Filipinas honor their partners....and despite temptation remain faithful....if you have one of those you are a VERY lucky man

 

Then My Friend, I am a very Lucky and Happy Chappie. and treating my little family right has paid many dividends. Despite some ups and downs. Major & Minor.

JP

 

In my experience men are the ones society matter what country your in expect to cheat. They love to think of women as the pure innocent that was corrupted by men.

However the truth I think is that women cheat as much as men but simply are better at covering it up plus added in society loves to point at men cheating, not women. In my years here in the Philippines and all the women I have met I have found so many of them hopped into the sack with me easy but short while later finding out they had bf's already even a 2 had foreign boyfriends (very old guys who were always back and forth). Now I'm currently 35 so the fact my being younger made so many think far better chance with a better future if they could nab me then a filipino bf or an *old* foreigner usually 65-75 with medical issues (and yes plenty of you guys aren't that). Funny as it sounds I even had 2 girls years ago (19 and 20) who were virgins who came after me wanting me as a foreigner as their first (funny as crap imo).... later found out both had filipino boyfriends who they had been turning down (yes they were actually virgins).

Many girls I have also talked to at numerous times in their life have had multiple boyfriends, often the in person boyfriend with an extra text boyfriend or two that may become the new in person boyfriend soon enough.

Of course there are plenty of good girls out there also just as good guys. What we do when we are single is just that as long as your not lieing and bs'ing your way. But imo best way to make sure your partner isn't going to cheat is don't ignore them and make sure they are with you because they want you.... not because they need you. But soon as you start ignoring or sidelining your partner is when room starts to open up for someone else to fill the gap.