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i lost my boyfriend in dumaguete!

Discussion in '☋ General Chat ☋' started by dumaguetenia, Oct 10, 2007.

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  1. wiNkz

    wiNkz DI Junior Member

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    Hi dumaguetenia!

    Trust though isn't quite simple... but hey.. there is really nothing you can do much but trust.. isn't it? just keep your poise.. hehehhe.. i bet you know your man well.. you know what works and what doesn't work.. so be cool and stay calm.. :smile:
     
  2. pickled_newt

    pickled_newt DI Forum Patron

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    Sensible insight daffs.
    My bf before ( husband now ) never i knew , before i bump on him by coincidence in the silliman cafeteria had a pinay gf in Manila . He came back to see me a month later after his mates (brit girls left ) .It was nothing when we first meet.After a few months of us then he told me about it ,his kept secret .There was also another girl somewhere in Luzon kind of clever one he met on his travels that kept writing him. It all stop as he didn't want to upset me.But still I don't trust men all out 100%,no man is a saint,they hv few diff brains too .When in dumaguete we also had some filipina friends but I knew 2 girls really did flirt up. I can't believe it one time we went on beach picnic with circle of friends ,but something came out i have to leave them and come back later in the afternoon.But i came back after couple of hours ,with no other malice in mind ,you know what I saw,this pinay friend (split up from her hubby and has two kids ), leaning on my bf holding his arm with her head on his shoulders,and stroking his thighs , looking intimate , I wondered what she's after . While my 'innocent' bf thought there's nothing in it and meeting a woman that knows no boundery can be a recipe for trouble .I nearly commit murder that time,lols. But sure still holding on with my cool head ignoring as if didn't see it , otherwise it will be something too cheap .For a pinay to behave as such to somebody else's bf is out of order.Dunno about western women ,if being so touchy is normal. As conclusion, I don't mind my husband going around here alone or anywhere in UK ,europe but not so sure when in the Philippines. Perhaps when he'll be 70.:wink:
     
  3. daffs

    daffs DI Forum Adept

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    See....from your story, that is very common will happen.Even 7O PN, they are still attractive for the girls there lols....I travelled with my bf around PI but still there are some girls who tried to flirt him in my presence!But he tried to be " a saint" My god! especially this young girls who think they have more beauty than me lols....very confident! how much more when I'm not there:(
     
  4. blackline

    blackline DI Forum Adept

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    As a man I wonder, What is wrong with a flirt.As long as this not develop to more than a flirt.

    Philipinas are probably this worlds most jealous females.:mad:

    If the man want another girl there, he will have it anyway.

    But then he have showed he's not the right guy. Haven't he!!!!!!!!.:confused:

    On the oher hand I know a lot of cases where the philipina girl have another boyfriend in secrezzzzzzzy.

    So let us try to be neutral and objective here.:smile:


    It seems that I was to fast in this tread. As a "new boy in town" I dont know all the internal humor here.
     
  5. Rhoody

    Rhoody DI Forum Luminary

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    Just as a precaution, I already send my application letter to Dumaguetenia... hehe guys you are to late...

    cheers
    Rhoody

    I probably don't go with her to Joe's by the sea on her next visit here... hehe
     
  6. daffs

    daffs DI Forum Adept

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    bad guy rhoody.I will tell your honey:D
     
  7. garbonzo

    garbonzo DI Senior Member Veteran Marines

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    Wow, dumaguetenia...You sent your boyfriend alone to the City of Genital People? What were you thinking?..
     
  8. Rhoody

    Rhoody DI Forum Luminary

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    Hehe i am a longnose, divinginstructor and DI - "important"... this are probablt THE requirements to be a bad boy....

    Maybe I schould move the thread to Dumaguete-Nightlife ???, At least when her BF reads it one day...

    Dumaguetenia, don't take my posts too serious... at least mot the public ones... Maybe he is a good boy, just without load and low bat...

    cheers

    Rhoody
     
  9. daffs

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    rhoody, don't be afraid I will not tell it to your honey lols....From the start I like your sense of humor......
     
  10. Rhoody

    Rhoody DI Forum Luminary

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    hehe thanks... I am a good boy anyway....
    as long there is no gwapa around... hehe

    11:00pm, I guess I should go to bed now...
    good Night

    Rhoody
     
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