⌛ just trying to get involved

Let me know if screw this up. I have found my girl, been over there to visit her and her family. hired a usa law firm to get us through the paperwork.
I'm not sure yet if we will live in the philippines or usa. We will start here in vermont usa and see if she likes it. City girl into the country setting. We can live here without either of us working but we would have to be careful with our dollars. Over there we could live quite well on my income and savings. Anyone care to share their thoughts with us?