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You cant always get what you want but, if you try sometimes, you just might find, you get what you need. Rolling Stones

 

Kuting, buntag.

A word from a wise old man and a British ex-pat.

Old wise men know that young girls do not carry the bagage that older women carry. I personaly came here to the Philippines to paint sea and landscapes and to write a book or two. I did not have women on my mind but women here seemed to have me on theirs at least my wallet, lol.

But most good old guys here would not get on the first stepping stone with a woman at home and then most again are or have been impressed with the attitude of the fairer sex at home.

I know there is a lot of womanisers here, but when you see an old grey haired guy with a beautiful young chick don't judge the book by its cover. Most importantly also try to hold your jealousness as it shows, lol

 

Never mind what people say...

I am a local. My local Dad at age 75 got married to a local woman age 38 (16 years ago). It was the talked of the town that their wedding video was played through the big screen with an entrance fee by a video owner. Guess what? Their marriage was divine and filled with love, it was the best thing that ever happened to my Dad's life and my Stepmother. People talk, neighbors' gossip BUT did all these negativity affect their marriage? Of course NOT. In their marriage I saw respect, love, compassion and understanding.

My Dad died at age 91 three years ago. His local wife? Still devoted and proud of her husband. My Stepmother? I ADORE HER.

 

I think there is a big difference between a local marriage with that age difference and Expats in their 60'th who call their (age-wise) granddaughters the true love. Why they don't use common sense and look for a 50 year old and still pretty widow of a fisherman who died in a storm ??? For sure they know more about life than a mid-20- girl with the experience of a Kindergarten-kid in the western world.
Guys, be a little bit honest to youself...

 

Luckily you said "I think".
I think however there is no big difference at all.
You see them everywhere; expats or non expats, locals or no locals.
I can't judge their intentions and I also won't judge although I have sometimes doubts.
Good luck with your search for that fisherman's widow :D
Hope you'll find here at your 60'th birthday when the real one has not been found before. I will help you looking :D