Discussion in 'Tourist Information' started by Johan_E_M, Sep 17, 2019.
In that case, you will find an abundance of them here----just come to Duma then you will meet them.
strange request from abroad. the music plays here so come over. if you cannot find a girl whatever kind of you are looking for you are lost so or so, no matter where you are. sorry. take your luck in your own hands - my best wishes.
Proceed with caution. You may have requests to send money, probably not the nice girl you are looking for. Families here are very close and many daughters feel an obligation to support their families, and that expectation increases significantly if they have a foreigner partner. Just the way it is.
Might be a better investment compared to the enormous ammounts you have to spend in western countries to learn to know someone and support her in relationship - apart from later costs of divorce...
I know the Tip Top Htel My son went to Don Bosco and we lived at Hermogina some time... thanks for your shown interest lets keep in touch
guess you are right
No disrespect intended by anyone, I am sure. We are all getting older (except @Rye83, who gets younger by the day) and unless we interject a little humour in occasionally we would decline very quickly.
Agree - and helping the girl's family is a way to help people less fortunate. Our contributions will make a significant difference. BUT, nothing wrong with setting out the situation before things get to the married (or living together) stage - just indicate the help you can provide, as a fixed monthly sum, and if the girl thinks you are a kuripot then abandon ship. Never let yourself be put into a situation where the requests keep flowing in at an increasing rate and level and from a wider and wider family circle. I help my aged parents-in-law, FULL STOP - the others have to survive in this world on their own.
Please keep your learn bisaya thread to your own thread and not spreading around everywhere!
Finding a "nice" girl is always a challenge. Keeping her is a continual work. A lasting relationship has to be built on trust and respect in my opinion. As a parent who wants to have nice children, one has to learn to say and accept no as answer sometimes. If neither one can accept being told no, then the relationship is doomed to fail. Nobody gets everything.