Right, a lease of initial 50 years with renewable options of 25 years each. But with a signed contract that show that I can sell the whole lot without need of her signature but she cant sell without my signature. And my signature have to be witnessed by two people that I have approved when signing the contract. (to avoid cons) The contract also state that she can not resist the sale of the property unless I have made such changes. It is to be my choise if I feel my possible wife to be is to have ownership rights of the property and at what time that should happen. If I find the love of my life and it lasts then ofcourse she would inherrit it and I would also alow for something like that in a will. But being taken for the money and used as a milking cow with possible con in mind make me have a contract that will avoid such to happen. I am not unresonable, I am just carefull.